My best friend hates my boyfriend.

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my best friend is a skinhead and so is her boyfriend (she is 20 and he is 24.) they talk like once day on the phone and see each other a few times a year. they are long distance. my boyfriend(29) lives a couple blocks from me(20) and we are extremely happy together. he is super sweet to me and i love him. she seems to hate him all of a sudden and is making me feel like i should leave him because he has a shitty job, (when her boyfried was jobless and phoneless for a while.) she wont shut the fuck up about him. is it normal to want to drop her as a friend? talking to her is out of the question. she wont understand that she is wrong

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  • BfingIToucher
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm stuck on the skinhead thing....

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    IIN my best friend hates my boyfriend? Yes
    IIN you want to drop her as a friend? Yes

    Not all skinheads are racist, but a lot are. If you friend is a racist, you should dump them for that reason alone, to hell with all the boyfriend drama.

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  • NormalGuyx1
    12 years ago | pl

    No offense, but your "best friend" seems like a jerk.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    How can you be friends with a skinhead? Arent they pretty much unlikable on purpose?

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago | pl

    My sister hates someone I like.

    Either you're friend is jealous or she's not actually a friend. Get a new one and see how it works out. If it also goes bad and the previous friend was better, just stick with whatever you had.

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  • Shnaz
    9 years ago | pl

    Why are you friends with a skinhead? Anyway........ Skinheads hate. You didn't know this?

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  • YumInsanity
    12 years ago | pl

    when you say shes a skinhead, is that just her prejudiced alignment or has she also shaved her head? also, why the fuck are you friends with skinheads in the first place

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago | pl

    Drop her like a bad habit! True friends don't behave that way. You might give her one more chance, but after that if it still continues, kick her to the curb!

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  • Mcdc
    12 years ago | pl

    Yes it's normal. And go for the guy. If you love him and he truly loves you then ditch the person who's telling you wrong.

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  • amili
    12 years ago | pl

    ^ me too

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    she sounds jealous, maybe of losing your undivided attention or having a nicer boyfriend than her. leave her be, move away from her by degrees or be up front and tell her straight to back off your man. good luck

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  • TheW1fey
    12 years ago | pl

    Honestly I would drop her as friend. True friends support you no matter what. It sounds like she's either jealous you have a boyfriend you see all the time, or she possibly has a crush on your boyfriend. Either way, friends are dime a dozen.

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