why not tell her then if you are so sure it won't lead to anything?The way I see it there are two possible scenario's:
1. If she tells you that you are being rediculous you will at least have some closure. Granted, you will feel like an idiot for a while, but since you have known eachother for this long I doubt that it would affect her behaviour towards you.
2. If a miracle happens and she feels the same way you will be able to plan the next move together. In this case you should not feel like a homewrecker since the woman must have felt unhappy in the first place knowing that she did not marry the guy she really wanted, which would eventually affect the marriage anyway.
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why not tell her then if you are so sure it won't lead to anything?The way I see it there are two possible scenario's:
1. If she tells you that you are being rediculous you will at least have some closure. Granted, you will feel like an idiot for a while, but since you have known eachother for this long I doubt that it would affect her behaviour towards you.
2. If a miracle happens and she feels the same way you will be able to plan the next move together. In this case you should not feel like a homewrecker since the woman must have felt unhappy in the first place knowing that she did not marry the guy she really wanted, which would eventually affect the marriage anyway.