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my 13 year old son has a boyfriend. They hold hands, grab each other bums, KISS. They go further than that. Everytime i see them together they got there hand down each others trousards. They always touch each other willy's and balls. Is it normal to be gay at 13?
If you are a 13 year old who thinks he is gay, then yes, it's normal to have feelings like this. But, whatever you do, don't pretend to be your own parent and use words like "trousards".
Being gay = normal. Trousards = weird.
Wow really??? Sooo fake. No mother of a 13 year old would let that behaivor occur in front of them whether their child is gay/straight/bi...etc.
No mother would allow this to go on in front on them. And it is normal to be gay.
its normal. i remember when my mum found out i was gay, i was at home with my boyfriend at the time, i was sitting on the sofa, he was sat on my lap, one hand squeezing his bum and we where kissing and my mum walked in. shes happy for me to be gay. w i leave all the sexual stuff for the bedroom tho
another thing..i would like to stipulate what is normal and what is not normal for children at this age...sexual curiosities of all natures be it with boys, girls cousins brothers sisters and even children to have sexual curiosities towards (dare i say it) adults, uncles fathers etc is normal for children..as responsible adults what we do to stipulate normal behavour in children is to offer guidance when these things require it...and that i can ensure your boy does need assurances and guidance but be careful not to supress his nature or hold him back on his innocent experiences that he obsiously needs to evolve in life
terrible comments on this ..its hard been a parent its hard to know when to pull your kids up..well i think youve done a remarkable job as a mum..your boy is obviously smart and confident about his sexuality and he sounds sexualy healthy..the normal thing for 13 yr old boys is stress worry am i gay am i not what the hell is happening how to i act why am i horny all the time etc etc..your boy is going for it with the bull by the horns nothing holding him back..let him go..pull him up on whats appropriatte behaviour but let him go..he will do well in life and find himself quickly...dont be so quick to catagorise his sexuality at 13 ..its normal for boys to have curiosities with other boys then venture toward girls after they realise they are normal boys..while some boys stick with boys..im sure he will let you know when he figures it out after he experiences more things in life
"They always touch each other willy's and balls" and why would you know that?