I think your boyfriend did exactly the right thing in deferring this to an actual parent. I think this gives you the opportunity to talk about sex, about how it makes us feel good, why it makes us feel good, and how most people simulate that feeling for themselves. If she's curious enough to try it, then hopefully you'll have set her mind at rest and she won't feel guilty about it. Although, I imagine it would be difficult for you to consider your child doing this.
My 13 year old daughter is asking about masterbation, IIN?
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I think your boyfriend did exactly the right thing in deferring this to an actual parent. I think this gives you the opportunity to talk about sex, about how it makes us feel good, why it makes us feel good, and how most people simulate that feeling for themselves. If she's curious enough to try it, then hopefully you'll have set her mind at rest and she won't feel guilty about it. Although, I imagine it would be difficult for you to consider your child doing this.