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I have trouble expressing myself. Its a sea of ums, ers, likes, and pauses. From feelings, to just a general explanation. Im having trouble explaining this, right now...
Normal. Have you tried doing this in front of a mirror looking at yourself? I have found that those words are almost completely eliminated when youre looking at yourself while talking
I feel that what you are going through is like they suddenly unveil the curtain and all of a sudden you're front stage in front of an audience and you're thinking more of them than your own thoughts
or your thoughts might be there but theres some sort of block that blocks it.
idk, communications complicated. like you could be completely educated but those damn blocks when you go "um" "like" "pause" could make you sound completely retarded. they just ruin everything
well if u spend most of ur time typing out words online explaining urself u get used to thinking words really slow to urself as you type. so it kind of makes different connections in the head and makes u talk different. i just went through a bunch of shit related to this and computer talking didnt not help me one bit
I always say "like" to fill in the gaps when I'm trying to figure out what to say. It makes me sound really valley girl which I hate.
Online in writing I am quite articulate, when it comes to talking in real, I have much much more trouble with this. I stutter, get nervous and over think what I'm going to say, just not good at it. There are people like us but its not that normal.
just blurt things out. look for psychic people you can talk to inside your heads. things might be smoother that way.