You seem to be ignorantly unaware of the subjective nature of you comments. And, I doubt you have formulated testable hypotheses for any of them. I am a guy with facial scars. All women hate me regardless of the bahavioral style I choose to use. If I cover up my scars, half the girls are accommodating and pleasant in response to most of behavioral styles.
My point is this. As a social scientist, you lack the rigor and discipline you would need to defend your own research under peer review. Perhaps English literature fits your abilities a bit better.
Lol I never claimed to be a social scientist. All I know is what I have seen and what I have read. I worked in the restaurant industry for 20 years, most of my friends are women, many of whom are very attractive by modern societal definitions.
I have seen time and time again Danny Devito looking motherfuckers, i.e: short fat, bald men; the quintessential ugly man, with smoking hot chicks by their side. These men always have huge personalities, swagger, confidence, bravado. On the flip side I have seen many of times, chiseled, tall, Greek god looking men buy women drinks but they speak very softly, break eye contact and the women politely thank them for the drink but promptly inform them, "they have a boyfriend."
That same guy and even uglier ones with some game, swagger-confidence can have that chick, "with a boyfriend" in his bed within hours.
I personally have the same level of success with women whether I am in good shape, tanned, well rested, cleanly groomed as I do 15 lbs overweight, pasty skinned, bags under my eyes, in need of a haircut. My behavior doesn't change.
"Chicks dig scars" is a quote for a reason. Women will forgive a knife slash across the face; in fact value it if proves you're a badass. Confidently and loudly tell a whole bar of women you saved a rape victim and took a blade to the face and you're going to have your pick of every woman in the place. Say you tripped and fell and got tagged by the lawnmower and you'll get a bunch of sympathetic, "ouchies."
There are exceptions of course to behavior in men being more important than physical appearance. If you are so badly scarred or disfigured, like you had a pot of hot oil poured over your face when you were a child, or you are missing body parts, or in a wheelchair, you're not going to be able to attract super hot women. Remember women want men that can save them from a burning building, a sinking car- not vice versa.
Through mounds of empirical evidence that spans decades, and with a very large sample size, I have come to the conclusion that beautiful women are generally more attracted to men's behavior than their looks. And (outside of highschool) are more often than not, genuinely very kind to even the ugliest of bastards, unless said bastards are rude to them first.
Although subjective, you tell a nice story. Sorry to say, but chicks don't dig scars unless the story behind it impresses their friends. Then they show you off a bit and dump you before you anything physical can happen.
At least you do well. Keep your condoms at the ready and enjoy the girls.
Most young pretty women hate ugly guys?
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You seem to be ignorantly unaware of the subjective nature of you comments. And, I doubt you have formulated testable hypotheses for any of them. I am a guy with facial scars. All women hate me regardless of the bahavioral style I choose to use. If I cover up my scars, half the girls are accommodating and pleasant in response to most of behavioral styles.
My point is this. As a social scientist, you lack the rigor and discipline you would need to defend your own research under peer review. Perhaps English literature fits your abilities a bit better.
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Lol I never claimed to be a social scientist. All I know is what I have seen and what I have read. I worked in the restaurant industry for 20 years, most of my friends are women, many of whom are very attractive by modern societal definitions.
I have seen time and time again Danny Devito looking motherfuckers, i.e: short fat, bald men; the quintessential ugly man, with smoking hot chicks by their side. These men always have huge personalities, swagger, confidence, bravado. On the flip side I have seen many of times, chiseled, tall, Greek god looking men buy women drinks but they speak very softly, break eye contact and the women politely thank them for the drink but promptly inform them, "they have a boyfriend."
That same guy and even uglier ones with some game, swagger-confidence can have that chick, "with a boyfriend" in his bed within hours.
I personally have the same level of success with women whether I am in good shape, tanned, well rested, cleanly groomed as I do 15 lbs overweight, pasty skinned, bags under my eyes, in need of a haircut. My behavior doesn't change.
"Chicks dig scars" is a quote for a reason. Women will forgive a knife slash across the face; in fact value it if proves you're a badass. Confidently and loudly tell a whole bar of women you saved a rape victim and took a blade to the face and you're going to have your pick of every woman in the place. Say you tripped and fell and got tagged by the lawnmower and you'll get a bunch of sympathetic, "ouchies."
There are exceptions of course to behavior in men being more important than physical appearance. If you are so badly scarred or disfigured, like you had a pot of hot oil poured over your face when you were a child, or you are missing body parts, or in a wheelchair, you're not going to be able to attract super hot women. Remember women want men that can save them from a burning building, a sinking car- not vice versa.
Through mounds of empirical evidence that spans decades, and with a very large sample size, I have come to the conclusion that beautiful women are generally more attracted to men's behavior than their looks. And (outside of highschool) are more often than not, genuinely very kind to even the ugliest of bastards, unless said bastards are rude to them first.
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Although subjective, you tell a nice story. Sorry to say, but chicks don't dig scars unless the story behind it impresses their friends. Then they show you off a bit and dump you before you anything physical can happen.
At least you do well. Keep your condoms at the ready and enjoy the girls.