If you're in high school still or younger, that happens. Yeah you get the "mean girls" and "princesses" that are often bitches, but most people mature as they get older. Once people enter adulthood and particularly the workplace that way of treating others as if they're beneath them doesn't get them anywhere. There are plenty of hot women out there so high quality men are going to move on to the next hot girl if someone treats others like crap. Unless he is the douchebag equivalent lol.
I've noticed a lot of extremely attractive women are lonely and really sweet, they are often never approached by men because men assume they have no shot with them or that they're stuck up. If you show interest aside from rudely or crudely making advances at them they're just like everyone else.
Now if you're in a club setting and you're hitting on women that define their whole existence and self worth by the men they attract and get with and you don't meet their standards they will rudely tell you to fuck off. That whole scene is just a continuation of high school anyways and no an accurate reflection of the real world.
Also a lot of teenage girls peaked in highschool and don't look that great in adulthood and vice versa. Many awkward teens grow into stunning adult women, and don't have huge egos. High school sucks for most everyone, when you grow up the pretty girls won't be so rude. If you're an adult and experiencing this then you did something or said something more than likely to make them "hate"you, it wasn't your horrendous appearance, it was your horrendous behavior. If you ask a pretty woman out nicely, she will nicely deny you if she's not interested.
You seem to be ignorantly unaware of the subjective nature of you comments. And, I doubt you have formulated testable hypotheses for any of them. I am a guy with facial scars. All women hate me regardless of the bahavioral style I choose to use. If I cover up my scars, half the girls are accommodating and pleasant in response to most of behavioral styles.
My point is this. As a social scientist, you lack the rigor and discipline you would need to defend your own research under peer review. Perhaps English literature fits your abilities a bit better.
Lol I never claimed to be a social scientist. All I know is what I have seen and what I have read. I worked in the restaurant industry for 20 years, most of my friends are women, many of whom are very attractive by modern societal definitions.
I have seen time and time again Danny Devito looking motherfuckers, i.e: short fat, bald men; the quintessential ugly man, with smoking hot chicks by their side. These men always have huge personalities, swagger, confidence, bravado. On the flip side I have seen many of times, chiseled, tall, Greek god looking men buy women drinks but they speak very softly, break eye contact and the women politely thank them for the drink but promptly inform them, "they have a boyfriend."
That same guy and even uglier ones with some game, swagger-confidence can have that chick, "with a boyfriend" in his bed within hours.
I personally have the same level of success with women whether I am in good shape, tanned, well rested, cleanly groomed as I do 15 lbs overweight, pasty skinned, bags under my eyes, in need of a haircut. My behavior doesn't change.
"Chicks dig scars" is a quote for a reason. Women will forgive a knife slash across the face; in fact value it if proves you're a badass. Confidently and loudly tell a whole bar of women you saved a rape victim and took a blade to the face and you're going to have your pick of every woman in the place. Say you tripped and fell and got tagged by the lawnmower and you'll get a bunch of sympathetic, "ouchies."
There are exceptions of course to behavior in men being more important than physical appearance. If you are so badly scarred or disfigured, like you had a pot of hot oil poured over your face when you were a child, or you are missing body parts, or in a wheelchair, you're not going to be able to attract super hot women. Remember women want men that can save them from a burning building, a sinking car- not vice versa.
Through mounds of empirical evidence that spans decades, and with a very large sample size, I have come to the conclusion that beautiful women are generally more attracted to men's behavior than their looks. And (outside of highschool) are more often than not, genuinely very kind to even the ugliest of bastards, unless said bastards are rude to them first.
Although subjective, you tell a nice story. Sorry to say, but chicks don't dig scars unless the story behind it impresses their friends. Then they show you off a bit and dump you before you anything physical can happen.
At least you do well. Keep your condoms at the ready and enjoy the girls.
What you're saying is sometimes true but not always. You hit the nail right on the head about the clubbing scene though, but an unattractive guy doesn't have to approach the hot women in the wrong way to get them to tell him to fuck off, they'll do that any way you approach them because the hot clubbing women will not see any other reason other than sex for him approaching her there.
Most young pretty women hate ugly guys?
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If you're in high school still or younger, that happens. Yeah you get the "mean girls" and "princesses" that are often bitches, but most people mature as they get older. Once people enter adulthood and particularly the workplace that way of treating others as if they're beneath them doesn't get them anywhere. There are plenty of hot women out there so high quality men are going to move on to the next hot girl if someone treats others like crap. Unless he is the douchebag equivalent lol.
I've noticed a lot of extremely attractive women are lonely and really sweet, they are often never approached by men because men assume they have no shot with them or that they're stuck up. If you show interest aside from rudely or crudely making advances at them they're just like everyone else.
Now if you're in a club setting and you're hitting on women that define their whole existence and self worth by the men they attract and get with and you don't meet their standards they will rudely tell you to fuck off. That whole scene is just a continuation of high school anyways and no an accurate reflection of the real world.
Also a lot of teenage girls peaked in highschool and don't look that great in adulthood and vice versa. Many awkward teens grow into stunning adult women, and don't have huge egos. High school sucks for most everyone, when you grow up the pretty girls won't be so rude. If you're an adult and experiencing this then you did something or said something more than likely to make them "hate"you, it wasn't your horrendous appearance, it was your horrendous behavior. If you ask a pretty woman out nicely, she will nicely deny you if she's not interested.
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You seem to be ignorantly unaware of the subjective nature of you comments. And, I doubt you have formulated testable hypotheses for any of them. I am a guy with facial scars. All women hate me regardless of the bahavioral style I choose to use. If I cover up my scars, half the girls are accommodating and pleasant in response to most of behavioral styles.
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Lol I never claimed to be a social scientist. All I know is what I have seen and what I have read. I worked in the restaurant industry for 20 years, most of my friends are women, many of whom are very attractive by modern societal definitions.
I have seen time and time again Danny Devito looking motherfuckers, i.e: short fat, bald men; the quintessential ugly man, with smoking hot chicks by their side. These men always have huge personalities, swagger, confidence, bravado. On the flip side I have seen many of times, chiseled, tall, Greek god looking men buy women drinks but they speak very softly, break eye contact and the women politely thank them for the drink but promptly inform them, "they have a boyfriend."
That same guy and even uglier ones with some game, swagger-confidence can have that chick, "with a boyfriend" in his bed within hours.
I personally have the same level of success with women whether I am in good shape, tanned, well rested, cleanly groomed as I do 15 lbs overweight, pasty skinned, bags under my eyes, in need of a haircut. My behavior doesn't change.
"Chicks dig scars" is a quote for a reason. Women will forgive a knife slash across the face; in fact value it if proves you're a badass. Confidently and loudly tell a whole bar of women you saved a rape victim and took a blade to the face and you're going to have your pick of every woman in the place. Say you tripped and fell and got tagged by the lawnmower and you'll get a bunch of sympathetic, "ouchies."
There are exceptions of course to behavior in men being more important than physical appearance. If you are so badly scarred or disfigured, like you had a pot of hot oil poured over your face when you were a child, or you are missing body parts, or in a wheelchair, you're not going to be able to attract super hot women. Remember women want men that can save them from a burning building, a sinking car- not vice versa.
Through mounds of empirical evidence that spans decades, and with a very large sample size, I have come to the conclusion that beautiful women are generally more attracted to men's behavior than their looks. And (outside of highschool) are more often than not, genuinely very kind to even the ugliest of bastards, unless said bastards are rude to them first.
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Although subjective, you tell a nice story. Sorry to say, but chicks don't dig scars unless the story behind it impresses their friends. Then they show you off a bit and dump you before you anything physical can happen.
At least you do well. Keep your condoms at the ready and enjoy the girls.
What you're saying is sometimes true but not always. You hit the nail right on the head about the clubbing scene though, but an unattractive guy doesn't have to approach the hot women in the wrong way to get them to tell him to fuck off, they'll do that any way you approach them because the hot clubbing women will not see any other reason other than sex for him approaching her there.