They don't "hate" ugly men, they're just not going to settle for dating one when they can easily attract better. Same goes for good looking men not dating ugly women.
Good looking people have more options because a lot of people will want to date them. They can afford to be picky.
Sometimes, even if the good looking people don't hate the unattractive, they will still sometimes deliberately make an effort not to be nice to them, I believe that some of that is because they know that if they're even being friendly in a cordial way, then the guy could mistake the niceness for interest, and they don't want to have to deal with that.
It's not that the guy "could" mistake the niceness for interest, it's that he almost certainly will, and they've probably had to deal with it countless times. And then the so called "nice guys" get pissed at them for "leading them on."
You got a point there. I guess when the hot women can't shake off all the guys wanting them, they have to throw off the ugly ones first. It's kinda like when 20 people are applying for 3 job potitions, the manager will dismiss the ones least qualified for the jobs first.
attractive women in general hate ugly men the same way that people hate ants or other insects. they see ugly men as annoying and disguting pests more than anything.
Whether the mistreatment is due to ugliness, being black, or being gay, they're all situations where someone is getting mistreated for something that they can't help. Except that two out of those three things has stopped being tolerated by mainstream society now. What I'm saying is, why has prejudiced treatment towards blacks or gays become so unacceptable now, but prejudiced treatment towards the ugly is still completely acceptable?
That's why you need other things to back it up. I never said ONLY looks are important.
But when you're of the age when you'd generally be making babies, having good looks puts out a message to potential partners "this person will likely produce healthier babies with better genes".
We understand this in the animal kingdom, when we see many species of animal have developed certain features that attract the attention of the opposite sex within their species, to attract mates. That's how they compete. But for some reason when it comes to humans, we go full blown retarded on this topic and forget we're animals too. Sexual attraction is primal and very physical.
Looks do matter and anyone who says they don't is lying.
I'm not saying you have to look like a model (I don't) or that looks are the ONLY thing that matter (I don't think so).
I think I speak for the vast majority though, when I say I would like a partner who takes care of their looks in some capacity. Most people would not date someone who looks hideous. We are attracted to physical markers of health, relative youth, good lifestyle and good genetics, it is what it is. That runs very deep biologically and isn't societal. Biology is not fair but it's real.
I think that maybe an ugly guy could still get a hot woman, but he'd have to do something really special or impressive to impress her, where a good looking guy can just sit there hardly doing anything and he's got her.
Or, an ugly guy would have to have something really big going on for him, like being rich, or a star athlete, or a movie star, to attract her. But, the good looking guy doesn't have to have much money, be that great in sports, or be someone anyone's ever heard of, but he'll still get her with his looks.
Yes, that's true. I had someone tell me once that looks weren't that important because Danny DeVeto attracted all kinds of hotties. Yes, because he was both rich and famous. You think he would've attracted any hot girls if he was neither?
Most young pretty women hate ugly guys?
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They don't "hate" ugly men, they're just not going to settle for dating one when they can easily attract better. Same goes for good looking men not dating ugly women.
Good looking people have more options because a lot of people will want to date them. They can afford to be picky.
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Sometimes, even if the good looking people don't hate the unattractive, they will still sometimes deliberately make an effort not to be nice to them, I believe that some of that is because they know that if they're even being friendly in a cordial way, then the guy could mistake the niceness for interest, and they don't want to have to deal with that.
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It's not that the guy "could" mistake the niceness for interest, it's that he almost certainly will, and they've probably had to deal with it countless times. And then the so called "nice guys" get pissed at them for "leading them on."
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You got a point there. I guess when the hot women can't shake off all the guys wanting them, they have to throw off the ugly ones first. It's kinda like when 20 people are applying for 3 job potitions, the manager will dismiss the ones least qualified for the jobs first.
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Whether the mistreatment is due to ugliness, being black, or being gay, they're all situations where someone is getting mistreated for something that they can't help. Except that two out of those three things has stopped being tolerated by mainstream society now. What I'm saying is, why has prejudiced treatment towards blacks or gays become so unacceptable now, but prejudiced treatment towards the ugly is still completely acceptable?
Yeah, until their good looks fade, as they always do eventually
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That's why you need other things to back it up. I never said ONLY looks are important.
But when you're of the age when you'd generally be making babies, having good looks puts out a message to potential partners "this person will likely produce healthier babies with better genes".
We understand this in the animal kingdom, when we see many species of animal have developed certain features that attract the attention of the opposite sex within their species, to attract mates. That's how they compete. But for some reason when it comes to humans, we go full blown retarded on this topic and forget we're animals too. Sexual attraction is primal and very physical.
Exactly, "birds if a feather flock together".
Looks dont matter though
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Looks do matter and anyone who says they don't is lying.
I'm not saying you have to look like a model (I don't) or that looks are the ONLY thing that matter (I don't think so).
I think I speak for the vast majority though, when I say I would like a partner who takes care of their looks in some capacity. Most people would not date someone who looks hideous. We are attracted to physical markers of health, relative youth, good lifestyle and good genetics, it is what it is. That runs very deep biologically and isn't societal. Biology is not fair but it's real.
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I think that maybe an ugly guy could still get a hot woman, but he'd have to do something really special or impressive to impress her, where a good looking guy can just sit there hardly doing anything and he's got her.
Or, an ugly guy would have to have something really big going on for him, like being rich, or a star athlete, or a movie star, to attract her. But, the good looking guy doesn't have to have much money, be that great in sports, or be someone anyone's ever heard of, but he'll still get her with his looks.
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Yeah I see that. Less attractive people have to work twice as hard
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Yes, that's true. I had someone tell me once that looks weren't that important because Danny DeVeto attracted all kinds of hotties. Yes, because he was both rich and famous. You think he would've attracted any hot girls if he was neither?
Not to mature people
They shouldn't matter, But they still do to some.