Most young pretty women hate ugly guys?
Is it true that the younger and hotter a woman is, the more that she will despise an ugly guy just for being ugly?
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Is it true that the younger and hotter a woman is, the more that she will despise an ugly guy just for being ugly?
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I've seen many hot, young, beautiful women with butt-ugly, scraggly-looking guys, and always wonder..What the hell?
It means they have money. In case you've never noticed, rich dudes with model wives usually aren't too attractive themselves...
Not like it's a bad thing, it weeds them out for the rest of us. Rich creeps who want a trophy wife and gold diggers are made for each other.
There's no mystery here: many people are attracted to someone for reasons other than physical attractiveness, which fades anyway.
They don't "hate" ugly men, they're just not going to settle for dating one when they can easily attract better. Same goes for good looking men not dating ugly women.
Good looking people have more options because a lot of people will want to date them. They can afford to be picky.
Sometimes, even if the good looking people don't hate the unattractive, they will still sometimes deliberately make an effort not to be nice to them, I believe that some of that is because they know that if they're even being friendly in a cordial way, then the guy could mistake the niceness for interest, and they don't want to have to deal with that.
It's not that the guy "could" mistake the niceness for interest, it's that he almost certainly will, and they've probably had to deal with it countless times. And then the so called "nice guys" get pissed at them for "leading them on."
You got a point there. I guess when the hot women can't shake off all the guys wanting them, they have to throw off the ugly ones first. It's kinda like when 20 people are applying for 3 job potitions, the manager will dismiss the ones least qualified for the jobs first.
attractive women in general hate ugly men the same way that people hate ants or other insects. they see ugly men as annoying and disguting pests more than anything.
Whether the mistreatment is due to ugliness, being black, or being gay, they're all situations where someone is getting mistreated for something that they can't help. Except that two out of those three things has stopped being tolerated by mainstream society now. What I'm saying is, why has prejudiced treatment towards blacks or gays become so unacceptable now, but prejudiced treatment towards the ugly is still completely acceptable?
That's why you need other things to back it up. I never said ONLY looks are important.
But when you're of the age when you'd generally be making babies, having good looks puts out a message to potential partners "this person will likely produce healthier babies with better genes".
We understand this in the animal kingdom, when we see many species of animal have developed certain features that attract the attention of the opposite sex within their species, to attract mates. That's how they compete. But for some reason when it comes to humans, we go full blown retarded on this topic and forget we're animals too. Sexual attraction is primal and very physical.
Looks do matter and anyone who says they don't is lying.
I'm not saying you have to look like a model (I don't) or that looks are the ONLY thing that matter (I don't think so).
I think I speak for the vast majority though, when I say I would like a partner who takes care of their looks in some capacity. Most people would not date someone who looks hideous. We are attracted to physical markers of health, relative youth, good lifestyle and good genetics, it is what it is. That runs very deep biologically and isn't societal. Biology is not fair but it's real.
I think that maybe an ugly guy could still get a hot woman, but he'd have to do something really special or impressive to impress her, where a good looking guy can just sit there hardly doing anything and he's got her.
Or, an ugly guy would have to have something really big going on for him, like being rich, or a star athlete, or a movie star, to attract her. But, the good looking guy doesn't have to have much money, be that great in sports, or be someone anyone's ever heard of, but he'll still get her with his looks.
I don't think it's true. I've never hated a man I didn't find attractive. But, if a man is ugly and he's got the ugly personality to match...then what's he got going for him lol?
Honestly, I'm usually more attracted to a man's personality - specifically, his ability to make me laugh/sense of humor, how safe and secure I feel around him, and someone to keep up with my sense of adventure!! Oh, and someone kind. Not just to me, but to other sin general since I am told to be very nice, I cannot be with someone hateful and negative.
**note: im putting ugly in parenthesis bc I'm going by what societys standards deem ugly/beautiful**
Um... The only time I've ever hated an "ugly" man, he was already ugly on the inside and I've witnessed it (i.e. neckbeards, incels, lmfao). I've never been crude to an "ugly" person without getting to know them...as a matter of fact, men society deems "ugly" have usually been kinder to me. I find overweight men, typically, to be more pleasant to be around!
in my opinion most pretty women hate everyone except other pretty women and themselves.And when i say hate i mean bully bcuz all my life every pretty girl i ever met has always bullied me for being an ugly girl....................i hate them
They hate everyone except themselves, other pretty women, and very good looking and/or rich guys. Yes, a lot of hot girls do bully, or just completely use people, because hot women can simply get away with doing bad shit, more people let them get away with it because they're hot.
Women in general are more attracted to behavior in men whereas men are more attracted to physical appearance in women. We are still very much cavemen and cavewomen when it comes to choosing our mates.
Men value features in a woman that can produce healthy offspring: youth, a symmetrical face, breasts, hips. Women value signs that a man can take care of their offspring once they are born: essentially confidence, and lack of neediness. Alpha tendencies. Signs the man can handle a crisis.
This is why even today you see your female friends go from one asshole to the next while you're there being the nice guy always wondering why the attractive women pick the dicks that treat them badly. They're not needy and you are.
If a smoking hot chick marries a man that has money but isn't an alpha type; if he inherited his wealth or made it in tech or something, the wife is probably banging other men on the side. Having money and good looks as a man certainly help, but they are absolutely not necessary to get very attractive women.
Some women are more attracted to behavior and attitudes in men than other qualities. But not the hot women, they care more about the superficial shit.
If you're in high school still or younger, that happens. Yeah you get the "mean girls" and "princesses" that are often bitches, but most people mature as they get older. Once people enter adulthood and particularly the workplace that way of treating others as if they're beneath them doesn't get them anywhere. There are plenty of hot women out there so high quality men are going to move on to the next hot girl if someone treats others like crap. Unless he is the douchebag equivalent lol.
I've noticed a lot of extremely attractive women are lonely and really sweet, they are often never approached by men because men assume they have no shot with them or that they're stuck up. If you show interest aside from rudely or crudely making advances at them they're just like everyone else.
Now if you're in a club setting and you're hitting on women that define their whole existence and self worth by the men they attract and get with and you don't meet their standards they will rudely tell you to fuck off. That whole scene is just a continuation of high school anyways and no an accurate reflection of the real world.
Also a lot of teenage girls peaked in highschool and don't look that great in adulthood and vice versa. Many awkward teens grow into stunning adult women, and don't have huge egos. High school sucks for most everyone, when you grow up the pretty girls won't be so rude. If you're an adult and experiencing this then you did something or said something more than likely to make them "hate"you, it wasn't your horrendous appearance, it was your horrendous behavior. If you ask a pretty woman out nicely, she will nicely deny you if she's not interested.
You seem to be ignorantly unaware of the subjective nature of you comments. And, I doubt you have formulated testable hypotheses for any of them. I am a guy with facial scars. All women hate me regardless of the bahavioral style I choose to use. If I cover up my scars, half the girls are accommodating and pleasant in response to most of behavioral styles.
My point is this. As a social scientist, you lack the rigor and discipline you would need to defend your own research under peer review. Perhaps English literature fits your abilities a bit better.
Lol I never claimed to be a social scientist. All I know is what I have seen and what I have read. I worked in the restaurant industry for 20 years, most of my friends are women, many of whom are very attractive by modern societal definitions.
I have seen time and time again Danny Devito looking motherfuckers, i.e: short fat, bald men; the quintessential ugly man, with smoking hot chicks by their side. These men always have huge personalities, swagger, confidence, bravado. On the flip side I have seen many of times, chiseled, tall, Greek god looking men buy women drinks but they speak very softly, break eye contact and the women politely thank them for the drink but promptly inform them, "they have a boyfriend."
That same guy and even uglier ones with some game, swagger-confidence can have that chick, "with a boyfriend" in his bed within hours.
I personally have the same level of success with women whether I am in good shape, tanned, well rested, cleanly groomed as I do 15 lbs overweight, pasty skinned, bags under my eyes, in need of a haircut. My behavior doesn't change.
"Chicks dig scars" is a quote for a reason. Women will forgive a knife slash across the face; in fact value it if proves you're a badass. Confidently and loudly tell a whole bar of women you saved a rape victim and took a blade to the face and you're going to have your pick of every woman in the place. Say you tripped and fell and got tagged by the lawnmower and you'll get a bunch of sympathetic, "ouchies."
There are exceptions of course to behavior in men being more important than physical appearance. If you are so badly scarred or disfigured, like you had a pot of hot oil poured over your face when you were a child, or you are missing body parts, or in a wheelchair, you're not going to be able to attract super hot women. Remember women want men that can save them from a burning building, a sinking car- not vice versa.
Through mounds of empirical evidence that spans decades, and with a very large sample size, I have come to the conclusion that beautiful women are generally more attracted to men's behavior than their looks. And (outside of highschool) are more often than not, genuinely very kind to even the ugliest of bastards, unless said bastards are rude to them first.
Although subjective, you tell a nice story. Sorry to say, but chicks don't dig scars unless the story behind it impresses their friends. Then they show you off a bit and dump you before you anything physical can happen.
At least you do well. Keep your condoms at the ready and enjoy the girls.
What you're saying is sometimes true but not always. You hit the nail right on the head about the clubbing scene though, but an unattractive guy doesn't have to approach the hot women in the wrong way to get them to tell him to fuck off, they'll do that any way you approach them because the hot clubbing women will not see any other reason other than sex for him approaching her there.
Lots of hotter young women like older ugly guys. Itβs a known fact. They play them the break them. Everyone knows.
That's subjective. As a young woman (high school/college), I was very attracted to handsome guys but because I was raging (closet) chubby-chaser people were confused and thought that I was attracted to/wanted to date ugly guys and kept telling me that I could "do better".
Although, like anyone regardless of sexual desires, as I got older I paid more attention to personality and ability to function in society rather pure looks. I think both men and woman learn to value people's personalities more than looks over time as they transition from teeny-bopper crushes to long-term relationships.
Honestly I find my boyfriend kinda ugly he's just not my type physically but mentally and such he is everything I desire in a man so I don't even see his appearance really, and I mean I'm not great looking but I'm certainly not ugly more casually pretty than anything if that makes sense, so if say no to your question out of person experience
It's not nice to be deliberately mean to someone, because of his or her looks, but what's wrong with ugly guys dating ugly girls... seriously? What's wrong with people going with people match with them?
I like when people know what league they're in, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that!
I agree, I've known so many people whose standards are just unrealistically high. They reject people who are actually in/close to their league and hold out for the hotties who will never be interested in them, then they whine that they're single.
More intelligent women seem to choose good genetics, as opposed to the ones who choose monkeys.
Natural selection.