Most people choose gender not love therefore it's not true love iin

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I know a lot of people who only go for someone because they have the same genitals as them or with the hetro people they choose someone because they have the opposite genitals. This is NOT true love because they are simply choosing to be with someone because it matches their preferred choice of gender, they are not going for someone because they fell for who they are as a person. At the end of the day, hardly anyone knows the real definition of love except me

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barefoot_on_the_sand

5 years ago | pl

This makes no sense.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  It makes perfect sense and how it is
  
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eeeekkk

5 years ago

I disagree with this. Throughout human evolution genitalia and physical appearance became a major role in love. It became one of the things that seperated us from some other mammals. It just doesn’t really make sense what you say it’s almost like not include genitalia at all? I could be wrong the way I am perceiving it. Love, by its definition can be a lot of things but when your talking sexually and that’s what genitals are for other than urinating obviously then yes they definitely play a part.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  That's speaking from an animalistic point of view where as us fellow humans are meant to be evolving and becoming a higher vibration thus we should be able to see past ones appearance as in gender and develop feelings for the spirit they are, the being within instead of choosing one for their penis, boobs and vagina
  
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  - eeeekkk
    
    5 years ago
    
    No matter how much evolution we are going to do we will always be considered mammals and hence animals. I get what you believe in but it doesn’t mean everyone else is wrong for not doing so.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      It does mean this as it's the truth
      
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Maniac_Squid

5 years ago

I think you're the only one who doesn't understand. I really don't understand what you're trying to say here?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Ofc you wouldnt, as no one has reached this higher level of thinking. You all still think of ones gender and sex and that's all
  
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Chocobonobble

5 years ago

But what about age? Why can't you stop dating around your age and date someone who is way older than you like 70+.
How about mentality? Why can't you stop dating the average mentality and go for full mental retardation?
How about looks why can't you date really super anorexics or obese people only both on the verge of death or anything you find unattractive.

It's called preferences and there's nothing wrong with having them and not having any at all. You can have no preferences at all and date all that I stated above and many more(very rare haven't met one person like that in my life.)

And I only know people who go for their own ethinicy or just brunettes so who cares.

P.s. There are different types of love. Like family to friend to spouse. "You can't choose your friends and family but life gives you a chance when it comes to your spouse" - personal quote.
I'm sorry to hear you view love this way but sorry the human race can't get rid of sexual attraction, most people are hard wired with it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I stand with what I say, people at the end of the day dont know real love as their ego is too fixated on preference with gender identity and whether or not the person either has a penis, boobs or vagina, rather than going for someone for who the are (their being/spirit) not physical body which holds the being.
  
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  - Chocobonobble
    
    5 years ago
    
    By your logic that means you don't know what true love means either.
    Since you won't even answer whether you would date any human being on this earth with the examples I gave above.
    
    You sound like you've been unsuccessful in the dating game, maybe because of your gender? Or I have no idea why people picking who they want to date bothers you so much...
    Once again you can't force people to see past everyone's gender, so gotta go with the flow or find a bi person or even pansexual.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      I know I gotta go with the flow and I'm not trying to force anyone, obviously no one can force anyone. I'm just stating the obvious
      
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      - Chocobonobble
        
        5 years ago
        
        Okay obviously seems like your not gonna listen to others opinions, questions or thoughts on here, unless they share the same views as you.
        
        Once again you didn't answer my questions in my first comment, so I'll simplify it a bit:
        Why does only seeing past ones gender counts as true/real love; how about seeing past age, mentality, asthetics, and physical & mental health as well?
        
        And here's question another:
        So if a man gave up his kidney for his wife, stuck with her through her terminal illness and never re-married again after her passing and spent his time remenicing about taking care of her and supporting her mentally and financial and her doing the same for him, while he waits to meet her again.
        Are you going to tell him or think to yourself that's not true love. Just because he was only attracted to a specific gender(women)?
        Even when he gave up everything he had and stuck by her in hard times?
        So in your view is it only true love, for example; if someone didn't care about someone's gender and dated them or got married later and stuck out till the end? Why can't they both be true?
        
        Isn't the definition of true love just unconditional affection for another person, or at least one of them (true love can be different among each person).
        
        But your probably not gonna answer my questions again. And state that you're telling the truth (or something similar like "I'm just stating the obvious again").
        
        And even when I question your "obvious truth" I get no answers.
        
        How can you think your stating the "obvious" truth when there's no answers for the questions being pointed at it?
        
        True love...it doesn't sound that simple.
        
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Tato

5 years ago

Love and romance aren't necessarily intertwined; I can love my best friend, but it doesn't mean I wanna romance him. True love is just a phrase and has nothing to do with lust or sexuality. It's all about existing in each other's life and sharing experiences together. But you may find that even in its purest form, love is still somewhat contingent, because that what is.

I understand what you say, and I agree with it, to a certain extent.
If I came to realize I love a specific person for their personality, moral convictions and other inner factors, and decided I want to pursue a relationship with them, does it mean it's only real if their gender's not an issue? Ofc not. If I find two identical potential life partners, one is female and the other male, I'll go with the female. The fact I prefer to love a woman doesn't diminish from its authenticity. What does count is how I treat her, what I think about her, how I talk about her and the value she has in my eyes.

I agree with what you say about romantic love these days. People rush with it and don't look into it deep enough, but I don't think the definition of true love is even right. Even a mother's love can vanish if her son turns to a monster.

Hope I made sense.

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SKDM007

5 years ago

gender is regarding sexuality, nothing to do with love

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Everything to do with love
  
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Indigobloom1

5 years ago

Fuck off trans supporter

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