There is a difference between secrecy and privacy. Choosing to keep health and other matters in your life private is not being secretive. It is your right as a person to keep what you like private and you should feel perfectly entitled to do so without self recrimination.
You need only tell anyone anything when you chose - which is wisely only when you feel safe, trusted and respected.
You have good insight into the fact that there are some people who can not be trusted. That is not your fault, nor are you doing anything wrong because it is none of their business.
Mental illness makes me unsuitable to have as a friend?
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There is a difference between secrecy and privacy. Choosing to keep health and other matters in your life private is not being secretive. It is your right as a person to keep what you like private and you should feel perfectly entitled to do so without self recrimination.
You need only tell anyone anything when you chose - which is wisely only when you feel safe, trusted and respected.
You have good insight into the fact that there are some people who can not be trusted. That is not your fault, nor are you doing anything wrong because it is none of their business.