You answered a question I didn't ask? Again, why would a mother allocate father duty to a NEW man in her life?
If we are talking about a woman who is mentally healthy, they wouldn't. But we aren't always talking about mentally healthy women, here.
Again, if some one doesn't have the courtesy to wave and greet a child in passing, he/she aren't worth dating.
You're acting like that is the only involvement that the man will have to have in the child's life.
And to the young mothers reference...no, it is not because the eligible bachelors are fathers and/or like kids. Men have no problem courting and sleeping with a woman that has given birth.
I understand that, but I am talking about dating and relationships, unless, in your mind, courting and fucking is all there is to dating, then the entirety of my argument is moot and if you are the OP, you failed to define dating thus leaving that to the responder to define.
My original response was to the OP and ItDuz. You and I are not on the same page.
Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded.
What the hell else kind of involvement is required of a person dating another with a kid. It's really about showed respect, acknowledgement and being friendly (expectations not uncommon in the social word)
Dating is courting, and for the sole purpose of sex and possibly an intimate relationship (or visa versa of course).
"Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded."
Awesome, put words in my mouth. Invalidate my argument by summing it up in a manner that is completely inappropriate.
And I am talking about when the relationship becomes an intimate relationship. I can't stress that enough to you. Many people actually DO want an intimate relationship.
I didn't put words into your mouth. I can use quotes too see: "If we are talking about a woman who is mentally healthy, they wouldn't. But we aren't always talking about mentally healthy women, here." Any woman who claims a practical stranger needs to father to her kid HAS to be bat shit crazy. Even the most deluded people still find a way to protect their children from OTHER people.
Need I remind you that the poll is "would you DATE..."
"...But we aren't >>>>*** always ***<<<< talking about mentally healthy women, here."
I added those for emphasis. As you can see, you truly are putting works into my mouth when you say ""Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded.""
Now I would like you to once again, show me where you said that, unless you are down with blatantly editing quotes, here.
""Need I remind you that the poll is "would you DATE..." "
And I gave an answer. I did not say that I would not DATE a single Mom, but when you are talking about dating meaning you only court and fuck, well of course most men would fuck a single Mom. How many times do I need to tell you that I am talking about what occurs when there is a deeper relationship formed?
Men- would you date a hot single mum?
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You answered a question I didn't ask? Again, why would a mother allocate father duty to a NEW man in her life?
If we are talking about a woman who is mentally healthy, they wouldn't. But we aren't always talking about mentally healthy women, here.
Again, if some one doesn't have the courtesy to wave and greet a child in passing, he/she aren't worth dating.
You're acting like that is the only involvement that the man will have to have in the child's life.
And to the young mothers reference...no, it is not because the eligible bachelors are fathers and/or like kids. Men have no problem courting and sleeping with a woman that has given birth.
I understand that, but I am talking about dating and relationships, unless, in your mind, courting and fucking is all there is to dating, then the entirety of my argument is moot and if you are the OP, you failed to define dating thus leaving that to the responder to define.
My original response was to the OP and ItDuz. You and I are not on the same page.
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Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded.
What the hell else kind of involvement is required of a person dating another with a kid. It's really about showed respect, acknowledgement and being friendly (expectations not uncommon in the social word)
Dating is courting, and for the sole purpose of sex and possibly an intimate relationship (or visa versa of course).
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"Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded."
Awesome, put words in my mouth. Invalidate my argument by summing it up in a manner that is completely inappropriate.
And I am talking about when the relationship becomes an intimate relationship. I can't stress that enough to you. Many people actually DO want an intimate relationship.
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I didn't put words into your mouth. I can use quotes too see: "If we are talking about a woman who is mentally healthy, they wouldn't. But we aren't always talking about mentally healthy women, here." Any woman who claims a practical stranger needs to father to her kid HAS to be bat shit crazy. Even the most deluded people still find a way to protect their children from OTHER people.
Need I remind you that the poll is "would you DATE..."
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"...But we aren't >>>>*** always ***<<<< talking about mentally healthy women, here."
I added those for emphasis. As you can see, you truly are putting works into my mouth when you say ""Yeah, my mistake in assuming the average mother is not totally bat shit deluded.""
Now I would like you to once again, show me where you said that, unless you are down with blatantly editing quotes, here.
""Need I remind you that the poll is "would you DATE..." "
And I gave an answer. I did not say that I would not DATE a single Mom, but when you are talking about dating meaning you only court and fuck, well of course most men would fuck a single Mom. How many times do I need to tell you that I am talking about what occurs when there is a deeper relationship formed?