I’m a woman but I’m quite dominant in my relationship. I am very much in charge in the sex department. I usually decide what I want him to do to me when and where. I sometimes have him massage me and make me cum, sometimes with sex toys and sometimes in other ways. Then I might let him screw me or I might tell him that’s it, he’s not getting any. I’m not horrible about it though. I know he loves a blow job so usually I give him at least one a week, when I do I always let him cum in my mouth and then swallow, I actually hate letting him cum in my mouth and hate swallowing it even more. But I know he gets great pleasure from me doing that so it’s my little sacrifice. But, whatever we get up to it’s always me that decides. Sometimes I tie him up and then make his dreams come true other times I tie him up and tease the hell out of him. Then I just untie him and tell him I don’t want to do this at the moment, leaving him gagging for it. Sometimes if we are out on a date night I will dress really sexy, short skirt stockings, no knickers etc I make damned sure he knows I’m not wearing underwear and get him all revved up and tease him the whole evening. When we get home I have him seduce me and make me cum, usually a few times, then I may or may not let him have his way with me. He never knows what will happen. I have also used a dildo on him and a vibrator, he really doesn’t like that so I don’t do it very often, but every now and then, perhaps 4 or 5 times a year, I do it just to remind him who is in charge. He usually wines about it a bit but he knows better than to protest too much.
Men: Would you consider being a sub?
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I’m a woman but I’m quite dominant in my relationship. I am very much in charge in the sex department. I usually decide what I want him to do to me when and where. I sometimes have him massage me and make me cum, sometimes with sex toys and sometimes in other ways. Then I might let him screw me or I might tell him that’s it, he’s not getting any. I’m not horrible about it though. I know he loves a blow job so usually I give him at least one a week, when I do I always let him cum in my mouth and then swallow, I actually hate letting him cum in my mouth and hate swallowing it even more. But I know he gets great pleasure from me doing that so it’s my little sacrifice. But, whatever we get up to it’s always me that decides. Sometimes I tie him up and then make his dreams come true other times I tie him up and tease the hell out of him. Then I just untie him and tell him I don’t want to do this at the moment, leaving him gagging for it. Sometimes if we are out on a date night I will dress really sexy, short skirt stockings, no knickers etc I make damned sure he knows I’m not wearing underwear and get him all revved up and tease him the whole evening. When we get home I have him seduce me and make me cum, usually a few times, then I may or may not let him have his way with me. He never knows what will happen. I have also used a dildo on him and a vibrator, he really doesn’t like that so I don’t do it very often, but every now and then, perhaps 4 or 5 times a year, I do it just to remind him who is in charge. He usually wines about it a bit but he knows better than to protest too much.