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If a man was all friendly first, then you dated a bit, and it was going good, then out of the blue ‘hasn’t picked the right time to date, because he doesn’t feel he has enough time’ then completely disappears why would he keep me on all social media ?
Maybe he doesn't have enough time to prune his Friends list either.
Seriously, if you're the "hand on leg" story poster, I'd suggest you try to chill a little. It may seem that it's all about you, but it's possible it isn't. So one guy decided he didn't want to see you again. That's a decision he's free to make, and he's also free to give you whatever explanation he chooses (or no explanation at all - there's no law that means we're entitled to a sworn affidavit and documentary proof justifying the dating decisions others make).
He's also free to leave you on his Friends list. However, if he knew you were reading all sorts of hopeful signs into that, he might well unfriend you. (Unless he's a sadistic bastard.)
Don't take it personally. It's just his decision, and people make mistakes all the time. Move on. Try to make some platonic guy friends, hang out with them, and try to get your head around how the male brain works. Most of us are pretty damn simple, obvious and straightforward compared to women.
Are you that awkward user who keeps going on different dates and posting on here whenever something goes wrong with the date? Please chill out.
He might just be not into you so much. Guys don't sweat social media as much as women do.
I have most of my ex girlfriends still on facebook. I can't be bothered with unfriending people. They'd have to be really, really annoying to make me unfriend them.
But the whole men thing. We are quite easy to understand. Men are more direct. I love speaking my mind directly. I often do. I hate the cat and mouse game women play. Just say what you mean and get it over with...
Anyway, don't overthink this too much. Plenty of fish in the sea. Especially in your case. You went out with the guy on a few dates and he touched your leg?! Big deal! It's not like he filled you up 5 times and had kids pop out year after year... Don't worry about it.
Because even as much as he says he's not ready to date you, he's trying to keep tabs on you and if you are involved again. The old "he doesn't want you nutrients want anyone else to have you at the moment" thing. P.S.- We are confusing so that women can come in behind us and rescue us from ourself. And because we are men, we can't help ir.
It’s about everyday now can we like ya know troll on something else. Noone in their right mind is this unhealthyly obsessed over some dude they had 3 dates with. When they don’t even know the person and so what he touched your leg it’s not like he popped 10 kids in you and you need him for child support. With all these posts it’s clear you won’t listen to those who answer you so why post for opinions? It’s going on long enough troll on something else.
I dunno, but if I were you I'd ask him what's up, or better yet just forget about him, and move on with your life.