Men never interested in me?

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I feel so sad, never dated anyone in my life before at the age of 22. 5'4 and 120 lbs. Whenever I am out in public, men never seem interested in me, never even return eye contact or approach me, never really hit on me, and it just makes me feel like I am ugly-like why can't I get dates or find someone to like me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    People who wanna relationship real bad normally end up in bad relationships, enjoy being alone

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    • YE
      5 years ago | pl

      I haven't been on the dating scene for ages, i even don't put myself out there anymore... like that i failed at superficiality.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago | pl

      You said that perfectly!☺

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  • Whatintarnation
    5 years ago | pl

    Who meets people in public anyway? Everyone I know has gotten together off dating sites. Change your tactics. I'm sure you'll do fine.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago | pl

      Really? Every girl Ive dated I met in real life. I tried several dating sites for years and met nobody.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      I wasn't sure how people date nowadays so thanks for letting me know that. I guess I will try a dating site.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago | pl

    I would not recommend a dating site if you are a woman. There are a lot of crazies out there. Perhaps some of the higher end sites like eHarmony may be okay. What are your interests? Try joining a club or organization that matches your interests. You never know. Oh yeah. This is 2018. It's okay to approach a guy that you are interested in. A word of caution no matter what you do. Be choosy. Don't pick the first dude you see out of desperation unless of course he's Mr. Right. And don't put out on the first or even the second date. You will know when the time is right. If Mr. Wonderful wants to sack you right away he's probably just wanting to put another notch on his gun. Good luck.

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  • edwininthematrix
    5 years ago | pl

    these days men are too afraid to approach women because they think they will be accused of harassment.

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    • charli.m
      5 years ago | pl

      No. Only the douches think like that.

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    • tedy
      5 years ago | pl

      I agree.., That is what I feel when I speak to woman> There is got to be reason why some men think like that. :)
      I do not think it is healthy thinking but I think like that.

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  • Paigiepoo
    5 years ago | pl

    Just say yes

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  • tedy
    5 years ago | pl

    You will be fine, check your body language, try to be more expressive in your needs and you will see results.

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  • Fmlsince1992
    5 years ago | pl

    Nobody intersected in me except creeps.

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  • barstool
    5 years ago | pl

    Most likely the only thing wrong with you is that you're expecting something to happen on its own. That's almost never the case, you have to actually do something about it...like ask a guy out. I've heard that can be a good start.

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  • Hotdogsaregross
    5 years ago | pl

    How is your body language when you are around people?
    People feel more comfortable around people that have a welcoming body language and look confident.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago | pl

    It's that #metoo thing that is going around. I wouldn't hit on any women now either. I don't want to be sued for passing a glance in someone's direction. It might get misunderstood.

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