Men and emotions

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Is it normal that I dont enjoy sex as much as I used to.Il be honest iv never slept with a guy I really cared about and now its getting to that stage where I want someone who I can new things with and be 100 percent comfortable around. Im 20 and im just really disappointed so far ,it might feel good physically for a few minutes but the emotional side that comes with it for me it is too much . Every time I drink I get upset and crave a love I never really had its actually pathetic. I just want to know how do I break this cycle and have any of ye felt like this?

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    Well, you're doing three things you shouldn't be doing: sleeping around with men (no respectable man wants to be in a relationship with a whore), drinking too much (a drunken whore), and thinking that you should have found the love of your life by age 20 (a silly whore). So... get an education, do something with your life, and then you probably will get a serious relationship.

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    • Hati
      8 years ago

      What's wrong with being a "whore"? If a woman wants to suck dick all day, let her. It's her body, and she can do whatever she wants with it.

      I bet you don't tell men sleeping with women is wrong, smh.

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      • SuMaFTW
        8 years ago

        Of course men should stop sleeping around. They act like dogs humping the first leg that crosses their path.

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        • 53739
          8 years ago

          Nobody should be sleeping around. That is irresponsible and unethical.

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago

      If some girls didn't sleep around, how would boys like you ever get any experience with sex? You should be on your knees kissing the feet of girls like this, not criticizing them.

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      • SuMaFTW
        8 years ago

        I've only slept with my wife, and she's only slept with me. 10 years. No prior sex for either of us. It hasn't been easy, but it has been with it.

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        • thegypsysailor
          8 years ago

          I'm sorry I do not mean to be unkind but honestly, how would you know? You have nothing to compare it to.
          Good on the ten faithful years though. That is a big deal in today's society of 'instant gratification'.

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      • ThingOne
        8 years ago

        I completely agree.

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  • Kielbasa
    8 years ago

    You're young. It's going to get a lot easier as you get older. I would say the age between 20-30 is when we develop the most emotionally. 15-20 is generally mostly chaos.

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  • nonconformist
    8 years ago

    Always some stupid prick that has to make it about religion@SuMaFTW
    Despite the hilariously rude way of wording his initial response he's basically right in that it's fine to not know what the fuck you want from a relationship, life etc at 20 years old.
    It's believed even Jesus didn't enjoy his first cock but before he knew he had 12 men at once!

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Feeling lonely is of little consequence to the alternative. . Feel the relief of never having the terrible pressure that an irresponsible man can bring you. Women like you will never be able to keep a responsible one.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Please define women like me? One little kink in the steel will not affect my future desires and if it did it's for the better. You sound very bitter

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      • green_boogers
        8 years ago

        Nope. I'm not bitter. After many years, I have noted that women who crave love are the ones that never get it. Have you noticed any common characteristics that women like you have?

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    Youre only 20. You have time to figure things out.

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