And I wasnt talking about myself either but a trend as well.
I'd like you to focus on my word choice. It's often very specific: "Maybe" and "Better chances" "massive gamble." All of which never imply that there are "ZERO women." I almost never claim anything to be an absolute but I understand this can be an easy subtlety to miss. In my observations, I know one 19 year old church going girl who married a 30 something man. But she is the only one who fits your trend compared to the... oh goodness... 20... 40? other young girls I've known all my life who wouldnt go for a man in his 30s no matter what.
Perhaps* your trend is true specifically where you live. A lot* of trends are after all are very particular to a city or country.
I was confused why you were showing me this article/blog. Then I looked back at your original comment that I replied to
"or do [30+ year old guys] want 20 a year old that would be more receptive to the role of house maker?"
Were you implying the guy is a house maker or the girl would be? Because my argument was based on the latter. That expecting a 20 year old girl to be a "house maker" would be a gamble/naive if the guy's intentions were settling down
I like to call it like it is. If some guy's goals are sex? By all means, pursue a girl as low as the law allows you. A lot of men already do. It's a free world. But I stand firmly by my opinion that if a man wants to make a wife out of an inexperienced girl, let alone a 20 year old, that is incredibly naive, rarely works. And this choice might be a reflection of a male who, may have his career and habits etc down, but has major insecurities... if not other red flags
Men 30+ Would you date a 30 year old woman?
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And I wasnt talking about myself either but a trend as well.
I'd like you to focus on my word choice. It's often very specific: "Maybe" and "Better chances" "massive gamble." All of which never imply that there are "ZERO women." I almost never claim anything to be an absolute but I understand this can be an easy subtlety to miss. In my observations, I know one 19 year old church going girl who married a 30 something man. But she is the only one who fits your trend compared to the... oh goodness... 20... 40? other young girls I've known all my life who wouldnt go for a man in his 30s no matter what.
Perhaps* your trend is true specifically where you live. A lot* of trends are after all are very particular to a city or country.
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I was confused why you were showing me this article/blog. Then I looked back at your original comment that I replied to
"or do [30+ year old guys] want 20 a year old that would be more receptive to the role of house maker?"
Were you implying the guy is a house maker or the girl would be? Because my argument was based on the latter. That expecting a 20 year old girl to be a "house maker" would be a gamble/naive if the guy's intentions were settling down
I like to call it like it is. If some guy's goals are sex? By all means, pursue a girl as low as the law allows you. A lot of men already do. It's a free world. But I stand firmly by my opinion that if a man wants to make a wife out of an inexperienced girl, let alone a 20 year old, that is incredibly naive, rarely works. And this choice might be a reflection of a male who, may have his career and habits etc down, but has major insecurities... if not other red flags