Meeting him for the first time.

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OK, so I have been in a long term online relationship with this guy for 7 months. I am meeting him for the first time in 3 days. I already know his expectations. He wants us to have sex. I am a 19 year old virgin and really nervous. He also wants me to leave with him when he goes back home. He told me he wants a marriage and kids. I love him to death, and I CAN visualize a future with him, but this all seems to be happening so fast. Are my feelings toward this subject normal? Should I go back with him? I guess I am not a child anymore, but I am still scared of the unknown ventures of sex. I am scared I wont be good at it I guess. or he will think I looked better on webcam. Am I being silly?

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  • keru
    6 years ago | pl

    he might want you only for sex and next thing you know is an unwanted pregnancy and him leaving you know what you're getting yourself into

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  • VexorgTR
    14 years ago | pl

    You got a problem... It's easy to fall in love with your concept of someone... Hell, it happens in real life. I met someone online and we dated for 3 months before the skeletons came out of the closet... it was crushing. I ceased our dating for a few weeks to cope with it. Right now you're in love with the concept of this person... make sure you know the REAL person. That's going to take awhile. As far as physical intimacy goes, hold off. Last thing you want to do is to make it worse if something dreadful happens to the relationship. It's easier to end a relationship gracefully if you don't feel you're body's been robbed.

    It's tough enough to end a relationship when you havn't "done the deed".

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