Masturbation only works sometimes

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Is it normal that touching yourself (for a girl) only turns you on sometimes- in fact rarely?
I think for guys they masturbate at least once a day, is that true, even if you're "not in the mood"? or as soon as you start touching yourself that sets the mood? And then for girls? people say they dont believe girls who say they never masturbate. I've masturbated maybe 2 or 3 times total in my 22 years. Not that i haven't tried (unless you count that) I often touched myself down there, but it did not give me sexual pleasure. People say that means i'm doing it wrong? but then when i do it the same exact way sometimes it feels great. then i try the exact same thing again and nothing. IIN
It just makes me really annoyed, because I had a guy friend that told me I needed to masturbate more often. I said I didn't feel like it and he said that means I'm doing it wrong and that it's normal for every girl to masturbate very often.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    Don't worry about it. Not all men masturbate daily anyway- it all depends on mood, timing, privacy etc.

    Don't worry about comparing yourself to others. move at the pace YOU are comfortable with.

    It sounds more like those people are trying to dictate to you how your body should respond.

    Think of it like ice cream flavors that you don't like. If you like chocolate but not peanut butter, do you keep eating peanut butter cup anyway hoping that you'll "eat it the right way" eventually? No, you eat the flavor you like.

    If you want to experiment with solo flights - that's fine. Follow your own flight plan, not someone else's rules on how to touch yourself. And if you don't want to do it at all, that's perfectly fine.

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    Iam a guy and i have never masturbated daily. More like weekly or monthly .my sex drive is high though but i dont feel satisfied from masturbation. I guess if ur sex drive is there then ur normal but if it's low then u should start worrying.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    **prepares sticky surprise**

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    Try to figure out what excites you, and then go from there.

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