massive Disdain for female sexuality.

I take strong offense to that. And I think that's a ridiculous thing to say. Women do plenty of amazing things, as do men of course, but you're jading your entire view of them as personalities and people because they have sexual desire? Based primarily off an experience with a horny sloppy teenage girl? um..

I understand that your expectations were shattered and you don't seem to be a bad guy, but I think your perspective is entirely wrong and kind of judgmental. Generalizing won't do you any good..