Sexuality is your capacity to have sexual feelings and erotic experiences. It does sound like you are repulsed by the physical part and not just the fact that she has the thoughts. But A lot of people dont think women are allowed to have these feelings. As if its wrong or dirty or improper. What you describe is just a lack of desire for sex yourself. So it sounds like you found a good partner for yourself, but your partner will never heal from her experience.
I believe that women are completely allowed to have whatever feelings they want. I just... I guess I thought women really were everything I was taught they were to be. These amazing life saving people, that bring happiness and music into your life, acceptance and peace. They are supposed to be better than us. Worth more than us, stronger than us. But their not... Their just as fucked up as the worst man alive. They are not princesses or queens, or even delicate. They are smelly wretched clingy little tear sprayers. There was supposed to be a higher element to life. And now there is not. I am confused, should I would repulsed by women, or the church that raised me, or my mother, and destroy my relationship with her. I would gladly sever the bond I have with my mother if I found out she vindictively trained me to be against women.
I take strong offense to that. And I think that's a ridiculous thing to say. Women do plenty of amazing things, as do men of course, but you're jading your entire view of them as personalities and people because they have sexual desire? Based primarily off an experience with a horny sloppy teenage girl? um..
I understand that your expectations were shattered and you don't seem to be a bad guy, but I think your perspective is entirely wrong and kind of judgmental. Generalizing won't do you any good..
What an asshole. Genitals aren't supposed to be gorgeous? That's just where the stuff happens. If you dislike women so much, why not be gay? :/ I'm an equal opportunity human lover, no matter the gender.
You just sound like a (metaphorical) dick. I'm guessing your first bad experience as a kid was because you weren't interested in the girl. And if you don't like what some women want well, then don't be with them. Simple.
I'm asexual and I'm not with my boyfriend because of his dick - I'm with him because I fucking love and adore him. Genitals are not supposed to be beautiful; if you wanted that, then put your dick into a bucket of sparkles and let your cock be bedazzled.
People will be people. Sure gender plays parts in it, but overall there will be bad men, and bad women. You can't ignore that there are and always be good men, and good women too, though. I agree with LAR23;, generalizing an ENTIRE gender? No offense but that's dumb. Some women are princesses to me, as some men are princes. Other women are fucking cunts (no pun intended), and other men are fucking pretentious morons and douchebags.
Maybe you just didn't mean the right person yet? Because when you do, what their junk looks like doesn;t matter - in fact,it might look GOOD to you automatically just because it belongs to them, the person you're crazy for.
I mean I was scared the first time I saw his thingamabobber but after I got over my own personal internal conflicts, it didn't matter anymore and now I actually enjoy doing whatever I can to make him happy.
I mean, best of luck man, but enough with the pussy hate, 'aight? Dicks and vajayjays aren't supposed to be beautiful - thats what faces and personality is for, right? Sorry if I sounded too mean in the beginning (I've since cooled down), but I absolutely can't stand it when people bash the opposite sex's genitals. Just mean, it's like you're literally hating someone for what they were born with, mentally and physically. Not cool. Good luck in your future endeavors.
I strongly agree with your thoughts on the attractive appearance of a partners genitals. In my experiences when I have got as far as being naked with my partner I have never sat back to analyse their genitals on a scale of attractiveness. I have simply loved them because it was 'their' genitals.
I'm pretty sure Georgia O'Keefe would argue with you about the beauty of genitals. Just look at her paintings of irises, those sure look like vaginas to me, and they are quite lovely.
Maybe you should start by getting rid of the stupid religion in your life telling you what to think?
Your view of women is appalling. They are your equal. Respect them. Respect all men and women equally. We're all the same damned species. Sexual lust and desire is different from one 'person' to another, but not because of gender.
I am offended by your statements as a human. I am not female. I am not a supporter of (modern) feminism. I do believe in 100% equality in humans, irrespective or race, gender or class.
massive Disdain for female sexuality.
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Sexuality is your capacity to have sexual feelings and erotic experiences. It does sound like you are repulsed by the physical part and not just the fact that she has the thoughts. But A lot of people dont think women are allowed to have these feelings. As if its wrong or dirty or improper. What you describe is just a lack of desire for sex yourself. So it sounds like you found a good partner for yourself, but your partner will never heal from her experience.
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I believe that women are completely allowed to have whatever feelings they want. I just... I guess I thought women really were everything I was taught they were to be. These amazing life saving people, that bring happiness and music into your life, acceptance and peace. They are supposed to be better than us. Worth more than us, stronger than us. But their not... Their just as fucked up as the worst man alive. They are not princesses or queens, or even delicate. They are smelly wretched clingy little tear sprayers. There was supposed to be a higher element to life. And now there is not. I am confused, should I would repulsed by women, or the church that raised me, or my mother, and destroy my relationship with her. I would gladly sever the bond I have with my mother if I found out she vindictively trained me to be against women.
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I take strong offense to that. And I think that's a ridiculous thing to say. Women do plenty of amazing things, as do men of course, but you're jading your entire view of them as personalities and people because they have sexual desire? Based primarily off an experience with a horny sloppy teenage girl? um..
I understand that your expectations were shattered and you don't seem to be a bad guy, but I think your perspective is entirely wrong and kind of judgmental. Generalizing won't do you any good..
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Agreed wholeheartedly.
What an asshole. Genitals aren't supposed to be gorgeous? That's just where the stuff happens. If you dislike women so much, why not be gay? :/ I'm an equal opportunity human lover, no matter the gender.
You just sound like a (metaphorical) dick. I'm guessing your first bad experience as a kid was because you weren't interested in the girl. And if you don't like what some women want well, then don't be with them. Simple.
I'm asexual and I'm not with my boyfriend because of his dick - I'm with him because I fucking love and adore him. Genitals are not supposed to be beautiful; if you wanted that, then put your dick into a bucket of sparkles and let your cock be bedazzled.
People will be people. Sure gender plays parts in it, but overall there will be bad men, and bad women. You can't ignore that there are and always be good men, and good women too, though. I agree with LAR23;, generalizing an ENTIRE gender? No offense but that's dumb. Some women are princesses to me, as some men are princes. Other women are fucking cunts (no pun intended), and other men are fucking pretentious morons and douchebags.
Maybe you just didn't mean the right person yet? Because when you do, what their junk looks like doesn;t matter - in fact,it might look GOOD to you automatically just because it belongs to them, the person you're crazy for.
I mean I was scared the first time I saw his thingamabobber but after I got over my own personal internal conflicts, it didn't matter anymore and now I actually enjoy doing whatever I can to make him happy.
I mean, best of luck man, but enough with the pussy hate, 'aight? Dicks and vajayjays aren't supposed to be beautiful - thats what faces and personality is for, right? Sorry if I sounded too mean in the beginning (I've since cooled down), but I absolutely can't stand it when people bash the opposite sex's genitals. Just mean, it's like you're literally hating someone for what they were born with, mentally and physically. Not cool. Good luck in your future endeavors.
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I strongly agree with your thoughts on the attractive appearance of a partners genitals. In my experiences when I have got as far as being naked with my partner I have never sat back to analyse their genitals on a scale of attractiveness. I have simply loved them because it was 'their' genitals.
I'm pretty sure Georgia O'Keefe would argue with you about the beauty of genitals. Just look at her paintings of irises, those sure look like vaginas to me, and they are quite lovely.
Maybe you should start by getting rid of the stupid religion in your life telling you what to think?
Your view of women is appalling. They are your equal. Respect them. Respect all men and women equally. We're all the same damned species. Sexual lust and desire is different from one 'person' to another, but not because of gender.
I am offended by your statements as a human. I am not female. I am not a supporter of (modern) feminism. I do believe in 100% equality in humans, irrespective or race, gender or class.
wow, you put the pussy on a pedestal.
People can be truly amazing, regardless of their genitals. Or they can be horrible.
And I do not stink!