I remember one of my ex's. We didn't really know each other well so there wasn't any emotional attachment. He was new to sex and had told me he wanted to remain a virgin until he felt he was ready to lose it. I was completely accepting of this but when he gave me oral for his first time, he didn't seem to want to do it again. I didn't pressure him but I asked why that was. He said it felt awkward and it didn't feel right to do that down there and that he didn't like the feeling on his tongue and even told me he was slightly turned off by it. I was confused because my boyfriend before him gave me oral all the time and was obsessed with it. But this guy was so distant to sex and to the pleasure involved.
Let's just fast forward and just three years later, he was dating MY friend. My friend and him get on extremely well, had been dating for a while and I could tell they were in love. She's one who over-shares so she told me he gives the best oral lol and she never had oral before him so he obviously does it because he enjoys it.
What I'm trying to say is, maybe you haven't been with the right girl yet.
massive Disdain for female sexuality.
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I remember one of my ex's. We didn't really know each other well so there wasn't any emotional attachment. He was new to sex and had told me he wanted to remain a virgin until he felt he was ready to lose it. I was completely accepting of this but when he gave me oral for his first time, he didn't seem to want to do it again. I didn't pressure him but I asked why that was. He said it felt awkward and it didn't feel right to do that down there and that he didn't like the feeling on his tongue and even told me he was slightly turned off by it. I was confused because my boyfriend before him gave me oral all the time and was obsessed with it. But this guy was so distant to sex and to the pleasure involved.
Let's just fast forward and just three years later, he was dating MY friend. My friend and him get on extremely well, had been dating for a while and I could tell they were in love. She's one who over-shares so she told me he gives the best oral lol and she never had oral before him so he obviously does it because he enjoys it.
What I'm trying to say is, maybe you haven't been with the right girl yet.
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Okay thank you for your thoughts, I appreciate it.