Married 2 weeks and lonely

I've been married for almost 2 weeks.

I feel lonely. While my now husband and I were dating, he had always paid attention to and smiled back and forth with other women while we were in public. He did it again today while we were at the grocery store and he was pushing our 3 month son.

I'm tired. I feel VERY lonely, frustrated and feel like crying.

I spoke with him about how I feel. He denies that he pays attention to and smiles at other women just like he always has. He tells me that I need to get my eyes and head checked. I don't know what to do.

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  • kricket

    It's good that you spoke to your husband about it. If anything bothers you, communication is the key. Talk to him but in a less confrontational way. Maybe tell him that you don't need to get your head checked and that he should be more considerate of your feelings I he expects the marriage to work. He chose to marry you too.

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  • chilledRunnings

    Cut his dick off.

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  • xoxo29

    Maybe u have post partum depression. It's very normal to feel the way u do when u have a baby. Your life has completely changed and it's hard to get adjusted. Talk to someone you trust do you can vent ur frustrations! Good luck!

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  • Mel

    Everyone looks at people they find attractive, its called being human!!!! Or maybe he really is just a friendly person. I say either way...you need to "choose your battles wisely" & why did you think a piece of paper was gonna change the way hes always acted.

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  • auNatural

    Why didn't you get all of this together before you got married?If he says he isn't looking then there isn't much you can do about it. As long as he isn't cheating and taking care of his son then you might just have to get over it I mean you married him and you knew he was doing that when you were dating. Deal with it or try to work through it and tell him how you feel.

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  • unameko

    maybe he's just being friendly. doesn't always mean he's checking them out. if this was a problem, why'd you get married in the first place?!

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  • lufa

    Did you think his behavior would change after marriage? If it bothered your before it will continue to bother you afterwards.

    When I was a young buck and got into the dating scene, I used to make stupid mistakes like that-forgetting that I'm already with a pretty hot girl.

    It's in our nature to check out other women (or men), however I learned to have better etiquette with dating girls over time, such as always paying attention to my date, never letting her feel uncomfortable and I'd never check out other women.

    Anyways, I think you'd be better off divorcing him and finding a guy who makes your feel like you're the only woman for him, assuming that's what you want.

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  • petawawacouple69

    What's he doing wrong??? He's either friendly or just looking at girls, what's wring with that? I'm sure these girls aren't checking your hubby out if he's with you and your kid. It's called taking notice and being friendly, don't be so jealous, your the problem not him. You have major insecurity issues by the sounds of this story. And by your story title.

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  • Princessandthepea

    Prattish behaviour

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  • HurrrDurrr

    Time for a little reality check. Every one including you women check other people out. I watched a study where they had people wear these glasses that tracked people's eye movements, and also camera's that pointed outwards so they could see what the eyes were viewing. When a person meets some one new they do it unconsciously. If he's not really flirting with them (striking up conversations with them), I suspect he believes he's telling the truth. In reality you do it too but you don't even realize it.

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  • Savmagic

    Why did you get married to someone who did this :/

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  • sparrowfeed

    oh man. that's not good...

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