Marriage and diaper lovers

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Ive been with somemone for 2 years and got married recently. i found out yeterday he is a diaper lover and enjoys wearing/releasing into them. i was shocked, hurt, mad and so on but i asked questions and try not to judge. I see it hurts him suppressing it and i'm willing to try to incorperate it into our sex life but i'm worried. will he prefer that, will he still enjoy or sex w/o it. If i don't like it will he hide it. we agreed no secrets and i'm afraid he'll have a secret life or desire it more and it will ruin or marriage. please help. Is this normal?

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  • paradoxinsoxs
    12 years ago | pl

    the fetish isn't something that evolves out of no where. it's usually something that's plauged the individual their whole life. So you're amazing for allowing it and being accepting of his "hyde".

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  • Vanilla_DL
    2 years ago | pl

    I would like to just give you my opinion on this as a diaper lover but very person. I honestly believe it is something like being gay or bisexual and a diaper lover I believe does not have a choice it is who they are mentally. If they had a choice I believe they probably won't be a diaper lover ! After plenty or research and studying this love for diapers for myself due to being scared with everything that has to do with it there is nothing wrong with it and nobody ever seems to care even if they noticed the diaper

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  • cagedbaby
    11 years ago | pl

    Just relax and play with it! It's supposed to be fun! You can develop a totally unique and intimate relationship that only you two share together. Diapers don't always have to be involved, but when they are just try to get into his head space and enjoy it! :)

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  • oblivious4111
    12 years ago | pl

    so i did try to incorperate it by letting him urinate on/kind of in me ( i know and I'm already judging myself lol) because I am supportive and kinky myself and personally i'd be more offended him sneaking it and lying. make sense to anyone? imput good and bad so welcome

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    • AngAnders112
      12 years ago | pl

      it's cool that you're willing to compromise with him on this! who knows, once get over the initial hesitancy, you may end up liking it!

      i can see how this would be hard for your husband. when's a good time to tell someone of a fetish like this? on the first date? after he proposes? on your honeymoon? there really isn't a good time.

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  • StarGirl13
    12 years ago | pl

    I've heard of this fetish, and not to be rude but It's one of my most hated ones so I can see why you would be upset. Among many other fetishes, this one I do not understand... I know its semi normal cuz I have heard of it so don't be worried in that sense...
    as far as him suppressing it... maybe you guys need to try it together, if you absolutely hate it (which I would), visit a sex shop together or watch some fetish vids and maybe you guys can find a middle ground to agree on... maybe he will discover something else that turns him on.

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    • cooldavid
      12 years ago | pl

      I agree. You seem very open minded for this. Maybe you could do a rule where the fetish stuff is allowed 25%.

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