Making propositions seen as strange or honest?

LMAO...I have to agree with 'tricks and deception'--that certainly is one way of looking at it...

Watch Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo for some tips....he makes the effort to do a few nice things for the ladies, come up with some nice complements to make them feel good about themselves, a few nice dates where he actually takes into consideration some activities/events they might want to do/attend, and the women think he is great!

I think a woman would hate herself for having sex with a man that just uses her, physically or mentally treats her like crap, is not financially responsible for himself, or doesn't put in the effort needed to help her achieve orgasm...