Making propositions seen as strange or honest?

Would it be acceptable to approach various women, likely at a bar but not limited to, and just ask "Would you like to have sex?" in a polite but honest way. Has anyone ever tried this before (if yes, please explain how it went)? As a believer in evolutionary biology, it seems that too much beating around the bush is involved in sex and relationships. Is this approach far-fetched at all?

Yes, this is ridiculous. 44
No, this isn't too ridiculous or far off. 15
It might work. 66
I've tried this and it worked. 18
I've tried this and it did not work. 5
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Comments ( 36 )
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Well you can do what one of my coworkers said he tried...

    He'd go up to girls and ask "Do you want to have pizza and sex".
    If they said "No" he'd ask them why they didn't like pizza.

    Results... he claimed he got the following reactions (all about 1/3 of the time for each)

    1) Slapped
    2) The girl laughed and at least talked to him
    3) Laid

    he said a 1/3 chance of getting laid wasn't bad.

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    • sheilarae1987

      Righteous lolz! :P

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  • Sweetz

    That's way too upfront.
    Most women actually want to get to know the person first.
    If you want a quick fuck, get a prostitute.

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    • brianiron4141

      Every once in a while(2-3-4) years I see someone who astounds me with beauty/want.
      I am not a kid any more, often you can feel it is a shared desire.
      What would you like the man to say?
      In that one in a million turn on?

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  • Rufus

    If women had anywhere near the sex drive that men do, your approach would be standard procedure.

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  • dom180

    I think I heard from someone that you'd probably get a hit rate of about 1 in 10 in a bar. The rest would probably slap you :/ Any where else you'd be lucky to get any at all.

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  • Violet_Heart

    It might not work because girls like to flirt alot.. or atleast some do.

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  • YumInsanity

    Women don't want to be asked for sex, they want to be tricked and deceived into it by any means necessary. Tell them they're not fat or they're prettier than their friends, that sort of thing. You have to at least feign some sort of interest in their personality to a sufficient degree so that they don't completely hate themselves for having sex with a man

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    • littlelulu1999

      LMAO...I have to agree with 'tricks and deception'--that certainly is one way of looking at it...

      Watch Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo for some tips....he makes the effort to do a few nice things for the ladies, come up with some nice complements to make them feel good about themselves, a few nice dates where he actually takes into consideration some activities/events they might want to do/attend, and the women think he is great!

      I think a woman would hate herself for having sex with a man that just uses her, physically or mentally treats her like crap, is not financially responsible for himself, or doesn't put in the effort needed to help her achieve orgasm...

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      • YumInsanity

        Women hate themselves after EVERY act of copulation

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        • littlelulu1999

          and you know this how?

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  • Shackleford96

    Have a friend get it on video camera. That would make for some classic footage to watch for later.

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  • VsegdaTemnata

    If I got approached by a very sexy man who asked me this, I would certainly go for it.

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  • lease

    I think that you can develop a sense of people's stance. Bars are a difficult place to read people. Much easier to catch onto the projections of a girl at a smaller party or friends of friends setting...or even at work. And I definitely wouldn't state "do you wanna fuck.." ..that's too forward. If anything, state that you've been working so much (or whatever) that you haven't had time to do anything fun.

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  • some girls would like that but not enough to warrant saying it to everyone :)

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  • Ashlie

    I would imagine it depends on what kind of bar you go to, and what kind of woman you ask. Also, are you in Nevada? Another important factor. Most women, including myself, would call you a creep and walk away. Some would slap you, a rare few would grab your hand and walk you to the nearest bathroom and some would probably say something along the lines of "That will be $100"

    In summation, it entirely depends on the circumstances.

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  • TheManagement
    STAFF

    Reminds me of this great scene in "A Beautiful Mind":

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfS-8X8PNx8

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    • littlelulu1999

      LMAO...if it were only that easy....

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  • BlackyHancock

    I saw on Youtube where a guy made 200 approaches to ask straight out for sex and got rejected 199 times. But the one that agreed was pretty hot!

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  • Francophile22

    While such an approach seems uncivilized or vulgar to me, the biggest PUA I even knew would sometimes drive down this large Avenue in a large city near me late at night, and when he spied a couple of women in a car, he would roll his window down and say "Wanna f*ck?" He got laid ALL the time.

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  • anonymous235

    There should be a "it just seems like a bad idea" option.

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  • Austalien

    Totally normal, I want a confident gal that know what she wants, I have but had to pay ^_^

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  • DavidS.

    Believe it or not it sometimes works with the really cute innocent types...don't be scary but just describe what you would love to do to them..the problem is these girls always have a friend that will try to cock block you...

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  • sheilarae1987

    The thing is, if I was there for the same reason, or open to it and the guy asking, who is honest, so there's a good trait and if he's got swagger/charisma and a dick exceeding 7inches, we may have liftoff shuttle to base!

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  • dwe

    Famous 20th century physicist Richard Feynman talks in his book "Surely your joking, Mr. Feynman" about how he used that very approach (you described) with women in bars to get laid. He said it worked enough of the time that it was well worth it, because the approach saved time and money. In a packed bar of many single women, he could get laid using this technique almost every night he tried. Who are we to shrug this result off? Feynman was probably a lot smarter than us. :)

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  • littlelulu1999

    No, not to most women...If you are an average guy and just want to have sex without beating around the bush, no courtship, no games, flirting, no foreplay, no conversation, no chasing---you pay for a prostitute... and you're both getting something out of it (you're getting laid without much complication, and she's getting paid to keep her mouth shut and not expect anything)...but if you're talking most regular women (not all but most), yeah it doesn't work that way unless you are a baller, millionaire, or famous actor....I am calling it like I see it---these types can simply ask for sex and they'll get it without much work, if they keep the girl around it will eventually require an investment of time and resources....I was under the impression that men are hunters, that they enjoy competition and working hard for something...so wouldn't you get bored if you got laid all the time by just asking without any challenge, work, flirting, or chasing involved? The baller, actor, millionaire will get bored of having a woman around easily providing sex he doesn't have to work to hard to get....even men in relationships and married men get bored with getting it easily and that's why you have so many articles dedicated to advising people on keeping relationships and sex fresh and new (as in the days when you first courted, chased and challenged each other for it)...so yeah, dude, if you want some, put a little effort into it....

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