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FOR WOMEN: Would you like to have a partner who wants to have majority of his orgasms during blowjob and ejaculate into your mouth?
FOR MEN: Do you think that MOST women would like to have a partner who wants to have majority of his orgasms during blowjob and ejaculate into their mouth?
Your negative feelings about blowjob with ejaculation into mouth might have messed up your ability to think straight - at least in terms of understanding the meaning of the poll question. It is about THE WAY A GUY CLIMAXES (during blowjob with ejaculation into a woman´s mouth). That DOESN´T mean that it is necessarily the main and the only sex act. You can do whatever you want before (or after) that... For example, I usually have 10 or so orgasms before that great finish so I really don´t know why a woman could not enjoy both - the described sex act and her own orgasms... They are not mutually exclusive! Therefore your argument against blowjob with ejaculation into a woman´s mouth doesn´t make sense...
What the fuck are you on about, 'I usually have 10 or so orgasms before that great finish ' - do you know what an orgasm is?
When the man ejaculates in the womans mouth, that puts an end to the woman having an orgasm through penetration, for example, because he won't be able to get an erection again for at least a few minutes and more like an hour for a man in his middle age. Your poll states that this man wants to have the MAJORITY of his orgasms through blowjobs. So what it seems you are suggesting is that you could have sex for a while, and then he'd pull out and ejaculate in your face, ruling out the possibility of mutual orgasm, or what most people could reasonably describe as "love-making".
As offended as you seem to be by my comment, the suggestion leaves me completely cold.
It is funny how you try to find "rational" arguments against blowjob with ejaculation into a woman´s mouth instead of admitting that you don´t want it because YOU DON´T LIKE IT or even that you find it disgusting...
I´m trying not to be annoyed by your claim "What the fuck are you on about, 'I usually have 10 or so orgasms before that great finish ' - do you know what an orgasm is?" because it´s a TYPICAL reaction of women who are not lucky enough to be multiorgasmic and lack the basic knowledge in sexual matters such as multiogasticity, orgasmic capacity and the variability of sexual response among women (including physiological response in terms of orgasm). In fact, I feel sorry for you that you have such a poor ability to achieve orgasm that you can´t even believe that it is possible to experience multiple orgasms. Of course, it´s much easier to consider it impossible than to admit to yourself that some women may have higher capacity to experience sexual pleasure than you do. Using defense mechanisms like this is just natural and I can´t blame you for that. All of us do it in one thing or in another. However, what I wrote about my orgasms is true – athough the point of writing that was not to demonstrate my orgasmic ability but to show that your argument against blowjob with ejaculation doesn´t make sense because the described sex act and a woman´s orgasms are not mutually exclusive.
As for your other arguments against blowjob with ejaculation into a woman´s mouth ...
“When the man ejaculates in the womans mouth, that puts an end to the woman having an orgasm through penetration, for example, because he won't be able to get an erection again for at least a few minutes and more like an hour for a man in his middle age.“
Sure, it´s true but irrelevant in this matter because the woman can have her orgasm(s) before that. If you mean that she can´t because she needs more time and the guy lasting longer – then it makes no difference where he ejaculates – even if it was the woman´s vagina he would lose his erection as a result which means it would put an end to the woman having an orgasm through penetration anyway. This rules out the possibility of simultanous orgasm as well! Moreover, sexuality is a source of many sexual pleasures and wonderful experiences - simultanous orgasm is only one of them. Some people may prefer to have their orgasms separately because they love watching their partner in the moment of utmost sexual pleasure and want to be able to fully concentate on that. Others love the feeling of their partner´s throbbing cock in their mouth during his orgasm or want their partner to ejaculate on them. It´s natural that people have various sexual preferences but what I don´t like is someone hiding behind false arguments and making “rational“ excuses instead of admitting that they do not like particular sex act.
Heheheh, I´m really a woman, but thanks - I feel complimened by the fact that when I´m talking about sex and particularly blowjobs, someone can´t believe that I´m female...
I´ve thought that you don´t like blowjobs very much on the basis of your comments - especially some sentences seem to be indicative of that. I suppose that if you liked BJ, you could at least imagine that a woman may prefer to do them till the end and likes the feeling of their partner´s throbbing cock in their mouth during his orgasm and other things which go with that - even if your preference was different - and you wouldn´t think that the only thing a person wanting that can do is to keep dreaming (+ you wouldn´t have a problem to believe that I´m really a woman).
By the way, I wonder how you could assume that I was a man when you wrote your comment to my 10 orgasms claim because the claim was apparently used to show that your argument against blowjob with ejaculation ("Why would anybody want their main sex act to be something which can't and won't ever result in them having an orgasm?") doesn´t make sense because the described sex act and a woman´s orgasms are not mutually exclusive. What on earth would be the point of writing my own orgasms in this context if I was a men?
The part about 10 orgasms I thought was female, most guys have 2-3 O's and they ready to pass out sleep. Not many stories of guys pulling a stretch that far.
As far as orgasm during a blowjob or not, I tried yrs ago ( I'm a guy) when a buddy and I were playing for 6 weeks or so with giving each other blowjobs, as much as I tried I could not get him to cum for me to experience. I tried for almost an hour doing everything I could think of, including tounging his clean ass, jacking him by hand, sucking, licking, and after awhile my jaw and muscles were getting tired and sore. I was disappointed.