I'm not judging the decision itself, I completely understand why they do it. I am merely commenting on the FACT that there is a power imbalance and a good lot of these women are also acting under the direction of essentially a pimp who profits from the deal. You're basically saying 'hey it's just two adults doing what they want' without looking beyond and examining why these people are doing this. As if their decisions are not prodded by anything whatsoever. Just because you are an adult doesn't mean you can't be limited in your choices. Starvation for family or marry a nasty poor American? No intimacy ever or buy a bride from overseas because you have that bit of leverage? If these guys are so great, why do they have to buy a woman? They for some reason NEED to or have to because they are either losers, control freaks or both or fethishisers. You seem to think all mail order husbands are rich. Nope. The one I know didn't even have running water in his house.
Again, you see, you keep saying nasty things about those guys, which is judging them, and then keep saying you are not judging. Like I said, there is power dynamics in all relationships.
So you say those women are starving? And if they find a groom they won't starve. And you're saying that's a bad thing? That those women should die? You're not even making any sense.
Look, this is going nowhere. And I have better things to do. So either you start making some sense or you do not deserve a reply.
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I'm not judging the decision itself, I completely understand why they do it. I am merely commenting on the FACT that there is a power imbalance and a good lot of these women are also acting under the direction of essentially a pimp who profits from the deal. You're basically saying 'hey it's just two adults doing what they want' without looking beyond and examining why these people are doing this. As if their decisions are not prodded by anything whatsoever. Just because you are an adult doesn't mean you can't be limited in your choices. Starvation for family or marry a nasty poor American? No intimacy ever or buy a bride from overseas because you have that bit of leverage? If these guys are so great, why do they have to buy a woman? They for some reason NEED to or have to because they are either losers, control freaks or both or fethishisers. You seem to think all mail order husbands are rich. Nope. The one I know didn't even have running water in his house.
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Again, you see, you keep saying nasty things about those guys, which is judging them, and then keep saying you are not judging. Like I said, there is power dynamics in all relationships.
So you say those women are starving? And if they find a groom they won't starve. And you're saying that's a bad thing? That those women should die? You're not even making any sense.
Look, this is going nowhere. And I have better things to do. So either you start making some sense or you do not deserve a reply.