If she agreed to it shes given her consent. If she hasn't thats human trafficking and isn't legal.
Not everyone is happy in there relationships but if they have consented its there business and no one elses. Just becos someone else might find the situation repugnant doesn't mean they have any right to interfere. You can not like it all you want but that doesn't mean anything.
OK, sad may not apply in all cases, I agree. But the whole scenario largely attracts certain types of people and just saying 'meh, it's consenting adults, whatever' is pretty shallow.
Like, make an analogy to prostitution (no, I am not comparing, just making an analogy)...
Prostitution between two consenting adults, who cares, right? On the surface, it's ok. But we know only a minority of prostitutes are genuinely happy, safe, and not abused, not a victim of human trafficking, etc. So can you really say they are just 'consenting adults' in general when talking about prostitutes? I mean, yeah superficially they are if they are over 18 but there is often overwhelming circumstances that push people into prostitution and while you (and I) can agree that prostitution should be a 'choice' an individual can make, you also need to admit that it's rife with danger, coercion, desperation, abuse, slavery, human trafficking and other problems.
I think you should make a new topic about prostitution becos I don't want to hijack this 1. But my short answer is many ppl involved with sex work are in fact happy with there choice and most of the danger comes from it being illegal becos the police aren't sympathetic to a "criminal". Legalization would give ppl that need help with an abuse or assaults a avenue to get help.
Mail Order Brides
← View full post
If both are happy with it then its fine and none of your business.
--
RoseQuartz
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Why would the woman be "happy"? Just because she's doing that doesn't mean she likes it.
--
mysistersshadow
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
If she agreed to it shes given her consent. If she hasn't thats human trafficking and isn't legal.
Not everyone is happy in there relationships but if they have consented its there business and no one elses. Just becos someone else might find the situation repugnant doesn't mean they have any right to interfere. You can not like it all you want but that doesn't mean anything.
--
wigz
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
It's still sad.
--
mysistersshadow
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
Is it? Why? Maybe there happy I don't know these ppl so how could I know its sad? Your generalizing about alot of ppl.
--
wigz
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
-1
-1
OK, sad may not apply in all cases, I agree. But the whole scenario largely attracts certain types of people and just saying 'meh, it's consenting adults, whatever' is pretty shallow.
Like, make an analogy to prostitution (no, I am not comparing, just making an analogy)...
Prostitution between two consenting adults, who cares, right? On the surface, it's ok. But we know only a minority of prostitutes are genuinely happy, safe, and not abused, not a victim of human trafficking, etc. So can you really say they are just 'consenting adults' in general when talking about prostitutes? I mean, yeah superficially they are if they are over 18 but there is often overwhelming circumstances that push people into prostitution and while you (and I) can agree that prostitution should be a 'choice' an individual can make, you also need to admit that it's rife with danger, coercion, desperation, abuse, slavery, human trafficking and other problems.
--
mysistersshadow
7 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
See More Comments =>
I think you should make a new topic about prostitution becos I don't want to hijack this 1. But my short answer is many ppl involved with sex work are in fact happy with there choice and most of the danger comes from it being illegal becos the police aren't sympathetic to a "criminal". Legalization would give ppl that need help with an abuse or assaults a avenue to get help.