Similar to his response, what he actually said in the post was that he tried to discuss it, and tried to be patient and understanding. But after getting nothing back from her he eventually got frustrated by her lack of communication and gave up. That seems logical to me. He can't force her to be honest with him. Would you have him pester her about it till the end of time?
There are two sides to every story and we are only hearing one. There could be other facts. But based on what has been presented here, if she was upset, he tried to be understanding and discover what is upsetting her, and she was giving nothing back, then he is not the one with the cocommunication problem. Communication only works as a two way street. If she is not going to participate, obviously he is going to give up at some point.
mad at me because of what I did in her dream?!
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Similar to his response, what he actually said in the post was that he tried to discuss it, and tried to be patient and understanding. But after getting nothing back from her he eventually got frustrated by her lack of communication and gave up. That seems logical to me. He can't force her to be honest with him. Would you have him pester her about it till the end of time?
There are two sides to every story and we are only hearing one. There could be other facts. But based on what has been presented here, if she was upset, he tried to be understanding and discover what is upsetting her, and she was giving nothing back, then he is not the one with the cocommunication problem. Communication only works as a two way street. If she is not going to participate, obviously he is going to give up at some point.