Though it seems to me that if her insecurities are unfounded, or things he may be completly unaware of, that maybe she is the one that needs to communicate them. He can't read her mind. Her just expecting him to read her mind and give short answers like "you know" when he does try to discuss it isn't really helpful.
If she has concerns beyond the dream, he is recognizing that she is upset, asking her what is wrong, and all she is giving back is "you know", then he is not the person with the communication issue.
Similar to his response, what he actually said in the post was that he tried to discuss it, and tried to be patient and understanding. But after getting nothing back from her he eventually got frustrated by her lack of communication and gave up. That seems logical to me. He can't force her to be honest with him. Would you have him pester her about it till the end of time?
There are two sides to every story and we are only hearing one. There could be other facts. But based on what has been presented here, if she was upset, he tried to be understanding and discover what is upsetting her, and she was giving nothing back, then he is not the one with the cocommunication problem. Communication only works as a two way street. If she is not going to participate, obviously he is going to give up at some point.
I'm not, I never do, all I've done all day is try to act the same as I normally do, I've been trying to make conversation, asked if she's okay and asked to talk about what happened but she refuses to, this is a one way communication break down
mad at me because of what I did in her dream?!
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Though it seems to me that if her insecurities are unfounded, or things he may be completly unaware of, that maybe she is the one that needs to communicate them. He can't read her mind. Her just expecting him to read her mind and give short answers like "you know" when he does try to discuss it isn't really helpful.
If she has concerns beyond the dream, he is recognizing that she is upset, asking her what is wrong, and all she is giving back is "you know", then he is not the person with the communication issue.
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They both have communication issues. She gives short, obscure answers and he is giving her the cold shoulder.
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Similar to his response, what he actually said in the post was that he tried to discuss it, and tried to be patient and understanding. But after getting nothing back from her he eventually got frustrated by her lack of communication and gave up. That seems logical to me. He can't force her to be honest with him. Would you have him pester her about it till the end of time?
There are two sides to every story and we are only hearing one. There could be other facts. But based on what has been presented here, if she was upset, he tried to be understanding and discover what is upsetting her, and she was giving nothing back, then he is not the one with the cocommunication problem. Communication only works as a two way street. If she is not going to participate, obviously he is going to give up at some point.
I'm not, I never do, all I've done all day is try to act the same as I normally do, I've been trying to make conversation, asked if she's okay and asked to talk about what happened but she refuses to, this is a one way communication break down
Read the post again: he says he's being cold shouldered BY HER
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Ah, I see. I misinterpreted that.
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It happens a lot on here and sometimes I even do it myself!