It at least means that he may still have feelings for you. This is quite normal as it is difficult to make feelings disappear simply because a relationship has ended.
Knowing what exactly he's thinking however would be impossible, and trying to figure that out, or speculating, would not be a worthwhile exercise.
I recommend that you live in accordance with your deepest and most sincere, considerate desires: find out! Ask him to go for coffee after class...just to chat and catch up. If he takes the invite, then FIRST (risk) tell him how you feel, what you hope for and how your thoughts on your break-up may or may not have changed. THEN (risk) Let him know how seeing him staring at you affects you and how much you'd like to know what he's really thinking at those moments.
Please realize that what I am suggesting is that you be completely honest and vulnerable with him. This gives him carte blanch to do or say anything…you’re giving him the “power”. The way he uses this power will tell you a lot about him, and what you might have to do next. It will also free you to move on, because when he knows how much you miss him and how much you want him in your life…if he chooses anything but you…you know that he is not a compatible fit for you.
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It at least means that he may still have feelings for you. This is quite normal as it is difficult to make feelings disappear simply because a relationship has ended.
Knowing what exactly he's thinking however would be impossible, and trying to figure that out, or speculating, would not be a worthwhile exercise.
I recommend that you live in accordance with your deepest and most sincere, considerate desires: find out! Ask him to go for coffee after class...just to chat and catch up. If he takes the invite, then FIRST (risk) tell him how you feel, what you hope for and how your thoughts on your break-up may or may not have changed. THEN (risk) Let him know how seeing him staring at you affects you and how much you'd like to know what he's really thinking at those moments.
Please realize that what I am suggesting is that you be completely honest and vulnerable with him. This gives him carte blanch to do or say anything…you’re giving him the “power”. The way he uses this power will tell you a lot about him, and what you might have to do next. It will also free you to move on, because when he knows how much you miss him and how much you want him in your life…if he chooses anything but you…you know that he is not a compatible fit for you.
Best of luck to you!