Loving your ex

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There is this guy I had been dating for 3 months. Everyday I spent with him made me feel so hyper and happy as ever. I was constantly thinking about him day by day and now since we've broken up, I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Thinking about him made me feel better from all the stress I had. I see him every single day because he's in all of my classes. The only reason we broke up was because he thought I liked talking to other guys more than him. Now after another 3 months have gone since our break up, I still haven't stopped thinking about him. I keep seeing him look at me during class A LOT. Does that mean anything?

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  • chicka1620!!!
    13 years ago

    Omg this is my life story and the guy tht broke up with me likes me again but i moved on

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  • so_addicted29
    13 years ago

    Well from reading this I think u have things that you need to re evaluate..he thinks u liked talkn to other guys more than him...were u really?..and if u were he has reason..or mayb he jus exaggerated the situation..also..are u missing him now because ur not getting the attention anymore? Did u get bored and start talkn to other guys? Or do u genuinely miss him? If so, SAY SOMETHING! Many people I find were in love with me the same time I was..but something that couldve been great wasn't because neither of us knew how to speak up!

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  • G22
    13 years ago

    It's normal, but he may be the jealous it insecure type of guy if he feels you like to talk to other guys more than him. If you were talking to other guys more than him, then you need to check yourself & show more respect for your relationship.

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  • boomzee
    14 years ago

    he broke up with you because he thought you were more interested in other guys than him.... if you're still thinking about him 3 months later, and you tell him that.. he'll probably realize that he misread things and voila problem solved

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  • bazwell
    14 years ago

    It at least means that he may still have feelings for you. This is quite normal as it is difficult to make feelings disappear simply because a relationship has ended.

    Knowing what exactly he's thinking however would be impossible, and trying to figure that out, or speculating, would not be a worthwhile exercise.

    I recommend that you live in accordance with your deepest and most sincere, considerate desires: find out! Ask him to go for coffee after class...just to chat and catch up. If he takes the invite, then FIRST (risk) tell him how you feel, what you hope for and how your thoughts on your break-up may or may not have changed. THEN (risk) Let him know how seeing him staring at you affects you and how much you'd like to know what he's really thinking at those moments.

    Please realize that what I am suggesting is that you be completely honest and vulnerable with him. This gives him carte blanch to do or say anything…you’re giving him the “power”. The way he uses this power will tell you a lot about him, and what you might have to do next. It will also free you to move on, because when he knows how much you miss him and how much you want him in your life…if he chooses anything but you…you know that he is not a compatible fit for you.

    Best of luck to you!

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  • jsyk
    14 years ago

    that means he's still thinking about you too, if i have any advice it would be to tell him that you still think about him, tell him that he makes you happy and if it will make him happy that he can be the only guy you talk to. that'll show him that you really do care

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