Loving somebody who is older than you?

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hey im 19 year old girl and this is my first year in medical school.i was a normal girl who likes boys the same age as me by now.i fell in love with my professor.he is 47 years old and my father is just 3 years older than him but i cant help loving him.he is intelligent,very goodlooking and sophisticated also he is a musician and dont worry he is single.he doesnt know anything about my feelings.now please help me is it normal?should i tell him?

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Based on 90 votes (58 yes)
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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    Life is short kiddo, you're both adults so go for it

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  • lufa
    10 years ago

    When I was younger I liked older women or those around my age. Now that I'm older, I like younger girls.

    I can't speak for your prof, but I'd go for it so long as I know it wouldn't get me in trouble.

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  • heartbrokenbutterfly
    13 years ago

    go for it!! age means nothing. just remember he may be surprised.

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  • elvalil
    13 years ago

    I would say do it while you can. But take it slow, teachers are vowed into teaching their students, not sleeping with them. I am in the same situation so I can definitely relate. It's really hard to "let him go" while you see him practically every day. I hope you'll get what you want. Be happy:)

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    It's just a crush. You'll get over it eventually. Something happening between you two could cost him his job and you your reputation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Omg you can't date him. He'll die like 30 years before you. Love him if you want but you have to get over him

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  • baronroderick
    8 years ago

    I'm usually not attracted to people too older than me, but eventually this can happen (I had a crush on my biology teacher in college, he was old enough to be my dad but sooo good-looking and friendly and perfect), I can't see why you're even bothering about, since you're both adults.

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  • drtywiteboy
    12 years ago

    yeah im cool with it. i don't judge so long as your legal to be with and your not bein a homewrecker. sooooooo. 19. (shes legal,checks it off the list) annnnnnnnd he's single (checks that off the list) so yeah, your set. go be happy, and don't let anybody tell you its wrong for you to be so. IF IT FEELS GOOD DO IT!

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    All young girls fall for their professors. When you mature you'll get over it...and be horribly embarrassed lol!

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  • tig2166
    12 years ago

    no I don't think you should, he's way too old for you and in a position of authority too. It's a really bad idea in my opinion

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