Love with someone i can never be with

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I'm in love with my FIL and we all live together we have been sleeping together for the last 2 months he has told me if he could leave his wife he would and he loves me and we had sex today as he paid for us to go into hotel room it's just I think I have fallen in love with him and I know we can never ever be together as I'm with his son and he has his wife I really wish we never started sleeping together etc really need advise as I said to him today this will be the last time we meet up and he said he doesn't want that but next breathe telling me we have to be careful and can't meet up much but there he is tonight following me into the kitchen and snogging me and putting his hands around me. He even went out and got another phone so he can text me on..... so I just tell him no more and try and forget about everything but I think I am in love with him please need help as obv I can't and haven't spoken to anyone else about this. Thank you

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  • Zorak
    6 years ago | pl

    Wow...both of you are really fucked up selfish people. You are sleeping with your husbands father...the father is sleeping with his sons wife. You guys are pieces of shit. Are you going to play the victim card on this one too?

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    • HarryPotter17
      6 years ago

      Hell yeah! I agree with you Zorak!

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Yep, this is completely disgustamundo! OP and her father in law are horrible people who are less than cockroaches!

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      • Flammy
        6 years ago

        I way your acting is like I have committed a crime and I for a long time done nothing and stopped anything from happening then it just happened and I have told him to stop number of times I'm here asking for advise not needing someone to say I'm less the cockroaches!!

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        • Zorak
          6 years ago

          You gave in to his advances and now you and your husbands father have basically disrespected the entire family....."and then it just happened.." What a terrible excuse to do what you have done. So you are playing the victim then? You were manipulated into doing it? You had no choice in the matter huh? What a pathetic excuse.

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          There's nothing wrong with smacking a man for hitting on you, especially when he nor only knows that you're married, but is actually your husband's dad.

          I guess it depends on the cockroaches, but honestly adulterers and adulteresses can't hold a candle to Las Vegas cockroaches. Las Vegas cockroaches are a class act, when it comes to pests they are very polite. Las Vegas has the best cockroaches in the country!

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  • oldguybigdickbruce
    6 years ago

    I have the same issue

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    • Flammy
      6 years ago

      So many people on here a judging I know what is going on is wrong I know that but when you have feelings for someone you can't just forget about it and what situation are you in

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        You should have told your husband the first time his dad was remotely creepy.

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        • Zorak
          6 years ago

          NO NO...this is equally her fault too. She CHOSE to sleep with her husbands dad...regardless of his advances...so she wanted it. Disgusting people...just for the mere lack of respect they have for their supposed loved ones. I would not doubt if this was actually just a troll post...

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    • Nev@HM!nD13
      6 years ago

      I know it's not simple to get out from that situation but do your best. There's more to life, you know.

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  • Sarajeremy
    4 years ago

    You have to break it off. Nothing good will come of it

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  • Mysticphoenix79
    6 years ago

    Oh and brace yourself for all the hurt and pain your gonna cause on all sides of your families!

    For heaven sakes I just hope theirs no kids in the middle of this outcome!

    You better start thinking about where your gonna move too! Because your husband not gonna want you to stay there and since your the one that fucked up you should be the one to leave not him!

    Can I ask you something why? What was missing from your marriage or from your husband that you couldn't keep your marriage vows and stay faithful? Loyal dedicated and committed? That your husband do anything wrong to you or is he just an innocent bystander the didn't deserve this and you're just a selfish person?

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  • Mysticphoenix79
    6 years ago

    Okay so you know that you did wrong and you know that it's fucked up so your first step is admitting it to your husband and to the family!

    And being the first one to do so!

    Instead of them finding out from different means, because it's going to hurt them a lot more if they find out from other ways or if they find out while you guys are in the act of!

    Now have you thought about your aftermath?

    Are you sure that your husband's father feels the same for you?

    Do you really know he's going to leave his wife for you?

    how long has he actually been with his wife?

    Are you sure he's just not feeling your head up with things so he can get what he wants from you?

    Remember a marriage is based on a type of love that means being there through thick and thin that's always trusting each other and always having each other back and you already screwed that up with your husband!

    Now your foundation with your father-in-law is about adultery it's about screwing people over it's not about Loyalty and it's not about having each other's back!!!

    So are you for sure He's going to even want to be with you after you tell the family the truth?

    Because in order for you guys to have a future together the truth must come out!

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  • Flammy
    6 years ago

    Yes it is equally my fault I'm not saying it ain't it takes two to tango and I'm not looking for the victim card at all just wanted a bit of structured advice but instead getting people insulting me don't you think I know I have done wrong

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  • Flammy
    6 years ago

    I know there is more to life it's just hard when you live with the person and every oppounity they have they are all over you. But thank you

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Well, that's the case then he's a predator! You shouldn't ever keep secrets from your spouse. If someone even looks at me sideways I tell my partner, we keep no secrets from each other!

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  • Nev@HM!nD13
    6 years ago

    Lady, there's more to life than that. It may just be LUST. You need to go out and breathe life.

    Do you want to be contented with just that?

    Just get out of that shitty situation or you'll die without getting your purpose in life.

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