Love hurts

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I have a friend and we have been like a couple for almost a year. Basically he is like my boyfriend but we have not come to agreements on that properly.

Now the story...I really like him but I do not feel I am getting the attention from him, such as regular phonecalls, sweet texts and just going out in public.

I went to end things with him and he told me he doesn't care about he's future and I am he's future. He has told me similar many times but this time I saw hurt in he's eyes, as in if I left him he would do something stupid like get killed or something and this really scared me, because I love him as a person.

Is it normal or stupid for me to feel so deeply about him although he acts like an idiot, and why am I so attached to him???

How can I get out of this...HELP!

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  • KiryuuLain
    11 years ago | pl

    Ahahahahaha we are exact in the same situation!
    It's because he doesn't want to bother you.He wouldn't like to let all the town knows it cause he feels shame and he doesn't want to admit.But he really loves you.
    He'd die if something happened to you.Don't feel bad.
    The best thing is to ivnite him at your house to hang out or go at his place.
    I am with my boyfriend in exact the same situation.But I don't care cause we're both nerds and that's how I like this relationship too.Just go with his waters and see his point of view.
    By the way he will act stupid sometimes and you might to feel the urge to hit him.But isn't this what makes being fun when you're with him? ^_^

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  • folksinger
    13 years ago | pl

    Replace him. He'll grow to hate you if you don't. Sorry. Cut him loose, if he want's you he'll come back on his own.

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  • jean
    13 years ago | pl

    Isn`t the title a song by Incubus
    Love hurts, but sometimes It's a good hurt and it feels like that...

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  • cherryade
    13 years ago | pl

    i'm treating someone like that right now & if thats the way i'm making some1 feel its about time, naw im lying, i just wish i could control my feelins n issues better so it dosent affect anyone

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  • NormalityMan
    14 years ago | pl

    You should date him. He probably will turn out to be a very affectionate boy freind and someone you may end up together with for life. Marriage/Sabakul(foreign cultures have other types of marriages). you never know. Just tell him you love him. He will say the same for you. If it doesnt work out, he will cry for a month and never forget you after that but eventually move on to others. Simple really.

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