Since, you are shy and all. It seems like it's easier to fall for someone you never met. hehe, I'm very shy myself. (also 18) Since well, at first it probably seemed like he was interested in you. And yes, this has been said over and over. You will not know a person unless you get to know them in person.
That said, I also chatted with a person from the other side of the world. I also had a phase were I had a 'feeling' like I never had before. That feeling was a little painful and great at the same time. Anyway, after those 3 monthes. Our communication went a little down hill. I still like him, and think about him. But, not to the same extent as before.
No matter how advanced our technology will become, it will never replace actual communication.
I'm sorry, but the best thing you can do it except the fact that you may never actually meet that person. I advise to slowly 'detach' from him. Maybe not completely, un-friend him from Facebook. But, just accept the reality. It will hurt, but it's something you have to do. So, it will not hurt longer.
Anyway, (like I said) I'm also a bit shy and lonely in real-life. So sometimes I will tell myself that I will 'never' find myself a decent boy. I can tell myself, whatever but time will tell.
good luck.
hey. thanks for the advise. i do think like that. but it's just so hard. everytime i sign in my facebook account, i will look at his facebook. but then, i've been thinking lately . i really want to be a doctor. and i have to focus. however, yesterday he sent me a message in facebook and it was really fun chatting with him. and he asked for my phone number in casif he wants to hang out wiht me or something. i felt so happy but at the same time it hurts because he got a girlfriend. maybe i just have to forget about it right? We,, thanks again.:)
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Since, you are shy and all. It seems like it's easier to fall for someone you never met. hehe, I'm very shy myself. (also 18) Since well, at first it probably seemed like he was interested in you. And yes, this has been said over and over. You will not know a person unless you get to know them in person.
That said, I also chatted with a person from the other side of the world. I also had a phase were I had a 'feeling' like I never had before. That feeling was a little painful and great at the same time. Anyway, after those 3 monthes. Our communication went a little down hill. I still like him, and think about him. But, not to the same extent as before.
No matter how advanced our technology will become, it will never replace actual communication.
I'm sorry, but the best thing you can do it except the fact that you may never actually meet that person. I advise to slowly 'detach' from him. Maybe not completely, un-friend him from Facebook. But, just accept the reality. It will hurt, but it's something you have to do. So, it will not hurt longer.
Anyway, (like I said) I'm also a bit shy and lonely in real-life. So sometimes I will tell myself that I will 'never' find myself a decent boy. I can tell myself, whatever but time will tell.
good luck.
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hey. thanks for the advise. i do think like that. but it's just so hard. everytime i sign in my facebook account, i will look at his facebook. but then, i've been thinking lately . i really want to be a doctor. and i have to focus. however, yesterday he sent me a message in facebook and it was really fun chatting with him. and he asked for my phone number in casif he wants to hang out wiht me or something. i felt so happy but at the same time it hurts because he got a girlfriend. maybe i just have to forget about it right? We,, thanks again.:)