I don't see ANY possible way that he would've caused you to smash up the apartment other than him telling you "You better smash up the apartment or else!!", and since I SERIOUSLY doubt that he said anything like that, I'd have to say that this is 100% your fault. It sounds like you had an argument or something with him, and your angry reaction was to smash the apartment, but you decided to blame him because according to you, him not agreeing with you, on whatever it was you argued about, him not agreeing with you made you decide to smash the apartment up. And, that made it his fault? No, Uh-uh!! Learn to take responsibility, and learn to control your anger! It's not cool to start destructing property in fits of rage whenever you feel like it. You need serious help controlling your anger.
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I don't see ANY possible way that he would've caused you to smash up the apartment other than him telling you "You better smash up the apartment or else!!", and since I SERIOUSLY doubt that he said anything like that, I'd have to say that this is 100% your fault. It sounds like you had an argument or something with him, and your angry reaction was to smash the apartment, but you decided to blame him because according to you, him not agreeing with you, on whatever it was you argued about, him not agreeing with you made you decide to smash the apartment up. And, that made it his fault? No, Uh-uh!! Learn to take responsibility, and learn to control your anger! It's not cool to start destructing property in fits of rage whenever you feel like it. You need serious help controlling your anger.