Lost love=destroyed life? or is there hope?

So I come to fine myself in one of lifes many hardships we all know all to well. My Ex Girlfriend of 3 years (who is 3 months along with my child) Woke up and decide "I dont have feelings for you sorry, bye". Now if that wasnt a slap I find out a week later she already has a new Boyfriend. So this opens up a hole new set of questions that of course wont be answered. So now im suppose to set here and wonder if its my child, If life is worth it, If things well ever be the same, well I ever get to see the baby. All these thoughts running through my head on top of the heart ache makes me wonder how I well ever get through this? I mean is it possibal to take such a emotional blow and recover? Well now that im totaly confused and lost I hope some one can shed a little light on my life. Thanks for reading this story.

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  • BoredGuy

    wish you luck. i dreamt of life full of passion and love. In reality, if you are a guy that want this stuff, you willnever actually be atractive enough to the females

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  • firefly88

    Maybe she got sick of your terrible spelling and grammar

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  • vintagebeauty224

    people like that are left in the past for a reason, but simply because you deserve better but if that is your child make sure you do part in fathering it. just curious, because not many women walk out of a perfectly healthy relationship when thire pregnant, but why did she?...really?

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  • promises

    1. To find a woman who isn't as messed up as she sounds look for maybe the small but simple signs.

    2. Your ex girlfriend well no matter how good looking she is sounds like she was cheating since she has a new boyfriend within a week of being dumped. Who gets into a new relationship after a week? (Two types of women. The first type want the ex boyfriend to be jealous and come running back or the second a girl who has cheated during the relationship.)

    3. Yes you can possibly bounce back my advice is to test if the child is yours though.

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  • Whitneyhouston

    Fuck this bitch. It's probably not your kid.. Demand a paternity test, and when it's negative you can put this behind you. It's not your fault, shit just happens.. she obviously stepped out on you in the relationship, got prego and doesn't know who's baby it is for sure. But it makes her feel better having sabotaged the relationship now than later when the kid doesn't look like you.. People change man, just hope it's not your kid. Doesn't sound like mother material.

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  • confused80

    I agree with the other comments and sadly I am a female, good girls are hard to find these days as well as a good man ... There's so much temptation out there andost can't turn it dwn .... I know it's gnna be hard after u put so much into it ta jus walk away but u gtta life goes on and god has a plan for us all.. Go out with friends take trips do things u nvr got to enjoy whle u were with her trust me things will get better, eventually .... ** just don't be her crutch when things go all to hell with the guy she's with now !!! :) good luck !!

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  • Annapunk7

    You will be fine. It will take a long time for the hurt to go away but just take life day by day and eventually things will be good. It just takes time.

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  • housecat

    Read The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle. Helped me :)

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  • teehee

    I'm so sorry this all happened to you. But i do believe its possible to get over it. It will take a while but you can do it!

    You have a right to know the answers to your questions so try and talk to your ex about them.

    You wont be able to wake up and have to pain all gone but it'll get easier to handle and one day you'll be able to look back on this and see how lucky u were to have gone through it and come out the other side stronger. good luck :)

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  • Hang in there man time heals all be strong keep yourself busy been through similar situations.You should work on yourself go to the gym go buy some new clothes try to get out there and try not to think of her it will drive you crazy but i understand dont give up you have to be a man..That means going through hard times....i am very sorry and hope you can use my advice

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  • AverageTMcFlannigan

    I've been seeing a lot of this lately. I've come to the conclusion that good women are very rare. They frequently pull this kind of shit.

    Yes, it's possible to get over but only if you're willing to let go. If you keep grasping, you'll continue to be tormented.

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    • teehee

      I didn't know that guys thought good women were rare.. I always thought good guys were rare.

      Its good that you posted that cos I now know that its not just girls that feel this way so, thanks lol

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    • Justalostsoul

      Ya, Im starting to slowly its hard any more it seems. Todays world is very tough to find a good relationship in.

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