I think you're reeeally gonna have to like the person if you ever want to enjoy it. I would hold out on it until you meet that person. Otherwise, it's going to feel like you're shoving your dick into a wall.
I did like the person I lost my virginity to. I wasn't head over heels for her (which is a weird mental image given the context 0_0) but I liked her as a friend. I still felt pretty much no enjoyment from it.
I think I'd be best suited to some BDSM stuff or something where I don't actually do the sexual acts and use other methods moreso. I should give it a try at some point.
Ahh. Still, I'd like to emphasize the 'reeeeally' and also now agree about bdsm. I think you have a very specific type that you'll have a hard time finding. It's definitely out there for you, though. I mean it. You're going to meet someone you click with and enjoy more than sex.
I cant really imagine enjoying it that much if I'm not in love with the person, or falling for them. So maybe it will be different when you feel like that about someone.
Honestly, the idea of having sex with someone I love has always creeped me out. No idea why but when I have "liked" someone, thinking about them sexually was very off putting for some reason. Don't know why.
Losing your virginity...is the first time always no good?
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I think you're reeeally gonna have to like the person if you ever want to enjoy it. I would hold out on it until you meet that person. Otherwise, it's going to feel like you're shoving your dick into a wall.
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I did like the person I lost my virginity to. I wasn't head over heels for her (which is a weird mental image given the context 0_0) but I liked her as a friend. I still felt pretty much no enjoyment from it.
I think I'd be best suited to some BDSM stuff or something where I don't actually do the sexual acts and use other methods moreso. I should give it a try at some point.
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Ahh. Still, I'd like to emphasize the 'reeeeally' and also now agree about bdsm. I think you have a very specific type that you'll have a hard time finding. It's definitely out there for you, though. I mean it. You're going to meet someone you click with and enjoy more than sex.
*snickers* Head over heels... =>
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Well maybe one day. Not really looking but maybe one day. :)
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I cant really imagine enjoying it that much if I'm not in love with the person, or falling for them. So maybe it will be different when you feel like that about someone.
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Honestly, the idea of having sex with someone I love has always creeped me out. No idea why but when I have "liked" someone, thinking about them sexually was very off putting for some reason. Don't know why.