Thats good and all, but sometimes it good to get it out of the way. No more pressure. News flash, 90% of people's first sexual experiance are akaward and not what they expected.
I dont way sleep around, but there is no need to set limits on it either. Just do what feels "right" to you and your morals
There shouldn't be any pressure. It's due to the over glorifying of sex in our society that causes people to think that they MUST lose their virginity at all costs without thinking they need a good person they love to do so. Sex shouldn't be awkward; even for first-timers. If you love someone, you should be fully willing and eager to lose virginity together.
And there has to be some limits. Otherwise, people will continue losing their virginity to creeps and nobodies. Only have sex with the one you truly love, then you'll never regret it.
Many times, it's a much better alternative to stay a virgin for your entire lifetime then lose it to someone you know won't stay with you until 'death do you both apart'.
Don't misunderstand me, i'm not saying you shouldnt wait to lose your V card to someone that you love (at the time) but just the act of sex in general is awkward the first times. It's not like how the movie show it.
But I also think it's stupid to wait until marriage. Because in the long run that could be a dealbreaker
Which it should just be when you feel comfortable, we agree on that
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Thats good and all, but sometimes it good to get it out of the way. No more pressure. News flash, 90% of people's first sexual experiance are akaward and not what they expected.
I dont way sleep around, but there is no need to set limits on it either. Just do what feels "right" to you and your morals
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There shouldn't be any pressure. It's due to the over glorifying of sex in our society that causes people to think that they MUST lose their virginity at all costs without thinking they need a good person they love to do so. Sex shouldn't be awkward; even for first-timers. If you love someone, you should be fully willing and eager to lose virginity together.
And there has to be some limits. Otherwise, people will continue losing their virginity to creeps and nobodies. Only have sex with the one you truly love, then you'll never regret it.
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Don't misunderstand me, i'm not saying you shouldnt wait to lose your V card to someone that you love (at the time) but just the act of sex in general is awkward the first times. It's not like how the movie show it.
But I also think it's stupid to wait until marriage. Because in the long run that could be a dealbreaker
Which it should just be when you feel comfortable, we agree on that