I guess so, but then each to their own. Some people have the ability to detach themselves emotionally.
I also think its a mistake to assume that you will be forever attached to the person you first have sex with because it's about trust and respect, not commitment or love..unless you want it to be of course, but those things aren't exactly necessary to have a good first experience.
You should never have sex with someone if it's not out of love and committment. That's one reason why relationships fall apart. Unless you can truly commit, there shouldn't be sex or children (in most cases, both).
Different things work for different people. I think you'd find that there are plenty of people who have sex outside of committed relationships and it works perfectly fine.
If their relationship falls apart its because they made the wrong decisions for the wrong reasons.
either that or they're an idiot who can't accept or understand their partners reason for doing things.
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I guess so, but then each to their own. Some people have the ability to detach themselves emotionally.
I also think its a mistake to assume that you will be forever attached to the person you first have sex with because it's about trust and respect, not commitment or love..unless you want it to be of course, but those things aren't exactly necessary to have a good first experience.
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You should never have sex with someone if it's not out of love and committment. That's one reason why relationships fall apart. Unless you can truly commit, there shouldn't be sex or children (in most cases, both).
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Different things work for different people. I think you'd find that there are plenty of people who have sex outside of committed relationships and it works perfectly fine.
If their relationship falls apart its because they made the wrong decisions for the wrong reasons.
either that or they're an idiot who can't accept or understand their partners reason for doing things.