I think it all depends on who's providing the service.
Doing the deed against an alley wall with a scabby, toothless tweaker who's out of her head wouldn't be a great introduction to sex.
Finding a woman who you find genuinely attractive - both physically and in terms of her working persona - and paying for a couple of hours with her in a comfortable hotel would be a different matter. When you're shopping around, be honest with the sex workers about what this is about, and try to approach it as a learning experience, not as a task you have to check off on your bucket list.
I don't like the institution of prostitution for various reasons, not the least of which is that it exploits, and objectifies women. However, I gave you a thumbs up for your second paragraph!
I get where you're coming from but prostitution is necessary. There's a reason they call it "the oldest profession" - prostitution is one of those things that is inevitable in all societies no matter what. The law only serves to make it more or less safe. I prefer the safer option of making it legal and regulated, but each to their own.
The truth is that I have for sympathy for prostitutes than I do for their clients. Those guys are scumbags. Like I said I don't respect guys like that.
Be aware that sometimes guys don't rise to the occasion the first time because of nerves. It's no big deal, and a pro should be aware of the possibility and treat it with the lack of concern it merits.
On the other hand, if that happened with an inexperienced girl you were deeply involved with emotionally, it could lead her to believe that you didn't _really_ find her attractive. So there are things to be said for going into the first time with someone who knows what she's doing.
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I think it all depends on who's providing the service.
Doing the deed against an alley wall with a scabby, toothless tweaker who's out of her head wouldn't be a great introduction to sex.
Finding a woman who you find genuinely attractive - both physically and in terms of her working persona - and paying for a couple of hours with her in a comfortable hotel would be a different matter. When you're shopping around, be honest with the sex workers about what this is about, and try to approach it as a learning experience, not as a task you have to check off on your bucket list.
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I don't like the institution of prostitution for various reasons, not the least of which is that it exploits, and objectifies women. However, I gave you a thumbs up for your second paragraph!
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I get where you're coming from but prostitution is necessary. There's a reason they call it "the oldest profession" - prostitution is one of those things that is inevitable in all societies no matter what. The law only serves to make it more or less safe. I prefer the safer option of making it legal and regulated, but each to their own.
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The truth is that I have for sympathy for prostitutes than I do for their clients. Those guys are scumbags. Like I said I don't respect guys like that.
That's what I was thinking you said it best.
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Be aware that sometimes guys don't rise to the occasion the first time because of nerves. It's no big deal, and a pro should be aware of the possibility and treat it with the lack of concern it merits.
On the other hand, if that happened with an inexperienced girl you were deeply involved with emotionally, it could lead her to believe that you didn't _really_ find her attractive. So there are things to be said for going into the first time with someone who knows what she's doing.