Losing virginity to a hooker

Is it wrong to lose virginty to a hooker?

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Based on 64 votes (40 yes)
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  • paracetamol

    Just remember to use a condom.

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    • Yeah. How shitty would it be to end up with an STD after having sex once?

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      • Tato

        You never forget your first time

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        • LornaMae

          Or your first STD.

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          • Tato

            Exactly. Cause they go hand in hand.

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  • Susancream

    I know what you're thinking about bro I used to think about just doing it with a hooker and finally knowing what it's like to have sex for the first time but honestly it wouldn't be special it'll fizzle away and just make you feel like shit for not being able to have sex with someone who's truly attracted to you and thats why I promised myself I wouldn't do it with a hooker never no way.

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  • JD777

    I guess it’s not really wrong. But, one great part of having sex with someone for the first time is that you’re both really turned on and going for it. With a hooker, good chance she won’t be turned on at all. Just doing another John.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I think the best thing a virgin can do is to save him or herself for another virgin! Sex without love isn't worth the trouble.

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      • geek_god_101

        Good luck with that in most countries.

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      • BlazeHazard

        When there is love u don't feel like having sex all the time

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  • Boojum

    I think it all depends on who's providing the service.

    Doing the deed against an alley wall with a scabby, toothless tweaker who's out of her head wouldn't be a great introduction to sex.

    Finding a woman who you find genuinely attractive - both physically and in terms of her working persona - and paying for a couple of hours with her in a comfortable hotel would be a different matter. When you're shopping around, be honest with the sex workers about what this is about, and try to approach it as a learning experience, not as a task you have to check off on your bucket list.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I don't like the institution of prostitution for various reasons, not the least of which is that it exploits, and objectifies women. However, I gave you a thumbs up for your second paragraph!

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      • SwickDinging

        I get where you're coming from but prostitution is necessary. There's a reason they call it "the oldest profession" - prostitution is one of those things that is inevitable in all societies no matter what. The law only serves to make it more or less safe. I prefer the safer option of making it legal and regulated, but each to their own.

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        • RoseIsabella

          The truth is that I have for sympathy for prostitutes than I do for their clients. Those guys are scumbags. Like I said I don't respect guys like that.

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    • That's what I was thinking you said it best.

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      • Boojum

        Be aware that sometimes guys don't rise to the occasion the first time because of nerves. It's no big deal, and a pro should be aware of the possibility and treat it with the lack of concern it merits.

        On the other hand, if that happened with an inexperienced girl you were deeply involved with emotionally, it could lead her to believe that you didn't _really_ find her attractive. So there are things to be said for going into the first time with someone who knows what she's doing.

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  • SwickDinging

    Depends. Do you just want to get it out of the way, or do you want it to mean something?

    If your virginity feels like a burden you want to shake then, yeah, I guess just shag a prostitute? Sounds pathetic and depressing though

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  • Fapstronaut

    This is a moral issue. If you can live with losing your virginity to a hooker then by all means continue. But I'd take a good hard think before committing.

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    • SmokeEverything

      There is nothing that involves less commitment than having sex with a prostitute yo.

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  • trexagireve

    Perfectly normal and sometimes better than losing it with a random girl

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  • RoseIsabella

    Seems like a waste.

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    • McBean

      If you are a 30 year old male virgin, YOU are a waste. Women don't want you. Orthodontics, plastic surgery are financially out of his reach. What is he going to do about it?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Sex isn't everything. I don't respect guys who pay for sex, or who look at lots of pornography. I certainly wouldn't ever be interested in someone who had ever paid for sex.

        The kind of guy you are describing should just look for a gal who is his female equivalent.

        There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. I'm honestly not interested in your opinions on this subject, because I don't care. I hold fast to my own morals, and values. I don't owe it to anyone to change my belief system.

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        • McBean

          Your system of beliefs is not uncommon. I would not have a problem with this system if you simply acknowledged the pain and mortification that these people experience. I sincerely hope I am wrong, but you seem completely oblivious to it. At least you have not condemned them. Nothing angers me with more rage than people who denounce them without considering their circumstances. Some of them have made sacrifices above and beyond the call of duty. *Sigh* This is my last comment on this issue.

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          • factcheck

            You know what really angers me with rage? When people desperately want sympathy for these men without ever acknowledging what it's like for women to see men think like that. How do you think women feel knowing that there are millions of men who believe that they're entitled to use their bodies as they please? How do you think women feel knowing that those men would force themselves on them without hesitation if they had the chance, because they have no respect for their own personal autonomy? How do you think women feel having to constantly hear just what those men would do to them, from those men themselves? And then they're told they should consider their circumstances! Has it ever occurred to you that we have considered their circumstances and decided they should still be denounced?

            People with this kind of toxic attitude don't experience pain and mortification. There are plenty of women who have trouble finding men, but they don't blame men. There are plenty of women who lack social skills, they don't blame men. There are plenty of women who aren't conventionally attractive, they don't blame men. That pain and mortification is a figment of their own imagination. It's self inflicted. It's not legitimate and it shouldn't be treated as such.

            You should have anger and rage, but it shouldn't be directed at women or the people who don't respect these men. Here's the two places you should be directing your comments:

            1.The men themselves, for having such toxic beliefs. Rather than wasting your time trying to convince people to look at these men differently, you should be trying to convince these men to think differently. To view women differently, to view life in general differently. Again, this is all self inflicted.

            2.The toxic society that helps foster their unhealthy, abnormal, and just flat out wrong beliefs. There's a reason why so many men think they're entitled to sex with whoever they want, whenever they want, regardless of how they treat women. Help women dismantle the toxic masculinity soaked into our patriarchal society and some of these men won't think the way they do.

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            • TheMightyOz

              Excuse me. I am a eunuch. I can't get it up because of a rubber tube that's up my cock. Do you honestly think I don't feel pain and mortification because of my inability to have sex? I struggle, and struggle hard to keep my faith in womankind. I try hard to focus on the few women who respect me as a human being. Then I hear your man hating voracity aimed at eunuchs like me saying I am unhealthy, abnormal, toxic, and that you can treat me like a piece of shit because I am pathetic.

              Well, I'm sure you take pleasure in your scorn for men. Go have sex with another woman, and please shut up. Your hate for eunuchs like me, for disfigured soldiers injured in combat, for guys born with birth defects, makes the world a horrid place. I am confident that someday you will burn in hell.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Good, because I'm tired of hearing about it. I don't care about those guys, and I never will. No one ever died from not having sex. I wish you would just not bother, because you can't guilt trip into having pity for them.

            All they have to do is to find equally ugly women. Prostitution objectifies, and exploits women. If there weren't any market for it it wouldn't be a thing. Johns are losers, and I do not owe them any sympathy. Stop trying to convert me to your way of thinking!

            Perhaps guys that pay for sex suffer, but guess what, I don't give a flying fuck! Men who pay for sex are garbage, men who sexually harass women are garbage, rapists are garbage, children molester are garbage, peeping Tom's are garbage, guys who expose themselves to people are garbage, all sex offenders are human garbage. They are shit! I will never feel sorry for any of them.

            You have a problem, because everytime I comment on this topic you come at me sideways, and twisted like you're trying school me, or enlighten me. John's are sex offenders, prostitution hurts women. Most of those women are using drugs, and alcohol to be able to do that work. It's not worth it, but for whatever reason they do it, because they're desperate. No one is ever going to die from not getting laid. Prostitutes use drugs, and alcohol to escape the pain of their existence.

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  • raisinbran

    Don't use a condom

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    • RoseIsabella

      Sounds like you want OP to catch a disease.

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      • raisinbran

        No, it's just that your first time should feel good.

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        • RoseIsabella

          It won't feel good if he knocks someone up, or catches a disease!

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    • SmokeEverything

      Just pull out to avoid pregnancy

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      • RoseIsabella

        You must want OP to catch a disease.

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  • EnglishLad

    Not wrong, just unfortunate and rather pathetic.

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  • jethro

    Well they are all hookers in some fashion. You either pay for it up front, without any obligations, with cash in hand. Or in the end with dinners, movies, jewelry, houses, cars or some other form of bling or remuneration. Some people actually love and marry hookers. So whatever floats your boat is fine.

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  • A-sharp

    hookers ? ..oh HELL yeah. They can ride you till you start speaking in tongs. Give you a break & do it again. Congrats.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Speaking in tongs?

      https://images.crateandbarrel.com/is/image/Crate/OXOStainlessNylon9inTongsSHF16/?$web_product_hero$&160922151223&wid=625&hei=625

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  • thehalfgoodgirl

    put it up the hookers butt

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  • HolyMoses

    You sure you want to do that mate there are risks?

    Give it time you'll find someone.

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  • Kittenfever

    I know tons of guys who lost their virginity in Magaluf from a prostitute. Not ideal but not weird. But to each their own!

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  • EnglishLad

    Not a fan of English people, no?

    What do we do that upsets you?

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  • factcheck

    Prostitution isn't wrong. Employing the services of prostitutes isn't wrong.

    But being that desperate to lose your virginity isn't normal, and you're likely going to regret that this is the way it happened.

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    • Bazinga

      As if someone like you would know anything about the catharsis of fucking a good whore. Paying her to suppress her disgust for you makes the orgasms all the better. Go back to high school and think capricious thoughts. You are not ready for the real world.

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