Looking for a new family

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Im 25 years old. I've been thinking a lot looking for new parents. New family with a warm-heart parents.

Ive been verbally abused by mom since i was very little. She has been complaining about nothing like she never craves for days but she acting like one. Ive spent all my money to help my family ever since my father died. I dont even save money for my future, but it seems worthless for her. She feels it's just not enough.

I never feel such a pure love from my mother. She is a religious person but doesnt act like a good person. I never felt A daughter to her. Im just someone that happened to be born. Thats it.

Ive been thinking looking for new parents where I feel safe and sound, Taking good care of them, Felt appreciated.

My house always kills my vibes as long as my mother home.

Geez, i need new parents. I know it's like impossible for me to be adopted. But seriously, i want to get away for a little while at a house with warm love.

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  • EccentricWeird
    6 years ago | pl

    Alright. I'll be your father, Luke.

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  • bogbrush
    6 years ago

    You are too old to be adopted. Your family sound like parasites, so start thinking about yourself. Find someone to marry and then you'll have a new family. If not, it's not so bad being alone - you can do whatever you want and spend all your money on you. You are worth more m'dear.

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  • JuiceHarp
    6 years ago

    You can call me big poppa.

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  • norochan
    6 years ago

    It is necessary to leave that situation. You shouldn't waste your time and money on people that don't care about you, so take yourself somewhere else and treat yourself right.
    You are the only person that can help yourself, so just keep in mind that it isn't just about finding good parental figures, but also finding yourself (as cheesy as it sounds.)

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    • Lyfofflower
      6 years ago

      Ive been thinking to do that, but it seems hard for me, because im the only financial aid here, but thank you for your suggestion :)

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  • gxdezlh
    6 years ago

    Get a bestfriend and ask him or her to be your roommate. That's my advice.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Google inner child. You need to learn to parent yourself, to learn to take care of your inner child.

    Checkout Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families

    http://www.adultchildren.org/

    and

    Codependents Anonymous.

    http://coda.org/

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  • Piggypig213
    6 years ago

    Try volunteering at a home or something. Old people are super adorable and nice~ I'm sure they would treat you like family. But you have to clean up after them too... that's all I got. Unless you manage to find some neighbors taht are an adorable couple who treats you like a daughter.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    6 years ago

    It's impossible for you to be adopted, but maybe if you move on and try to live your life, you find a partner, and your partner's parents will act like parents to you too.
    My friend didn't have a good relationship with her parents, at all, and she had always complained. She has been with her boyfriend for a few years now, and the boyfriend parents know about her family situation and they take her on the family holidays, family christmas lunches etc.

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    • Lyfofflower
      6 years ago

      My boyfriend's parents has passed away so it seems hard to find parents figure like that, but thank you for your suggestion :)

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      • yesnomaybeso
        6 years ago

        Ops, I'm so sorry I mentioned it :(

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