Look, i was wearing a condom. so wtf?

For just the second time I was fucking her in the ass, I pulled out, peeled off the condom I was wearing, came around in front of her and thrust (for lack of a betterword) my cock towards her face. She grabs it in kind of a death grip, causing me to explode. Not in her face or in her mouth like I wanted to. She knew what I wanted, but wouldn't do it because I was just in her ass. Wtf, I was wearing a fucking rubber. She said it was the whole Idea of the thing of being in her ass. Idea? WTF? Was that a normal statement?