Sorry, I just have to say this. EVERYONE has rankings on the people around them. EVERYONE judges people by the way they look/dress/talk. And EVERYONE is needy, at least to an extent. Wanting someone to pay attention to them doesn't mean that they "think they're better than others and have a negative attitude", they're just lonely.
I was talking about overly needy people that get ticked off when you are busy. I wasn't saying people don't want attention; of course people want attention. Anybody would go insane that didn't have anybody to talk to.
Also I wasn't saying people don't pay attention to looks, how someone dresses or how they talk. It shouldn't go by rankings though. I don't rank people; I go by how I make that person feel and how they make me feel; personality and personal preferences. If I notice after getting to know them for a little while and I don't see us being good friends then no I'm not going to bother anymore being around them unless they change. I wouldn't make anybody change if they don't want to, I'll just not bother to be around them when I know nothing will get better in the relationship. There is a difference between personal preferences and rankings. Besides I hangout with all sorts of different people.
I'm just being honest with my own opinion here and I'm not angry. This is the internet buddy.
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Sorry, I just have to say this. EVERYONE has rankings on the people around them. EVERYONE judges people by the way they look/dress/talk. And EVERYONE is needy, at least to an extent. Wanting someone to pay attention to them doesn't mean that they "think they're better than others and have a negative attitude", they're just lonely.
Get off your fucking high horse.
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I was talking about overly needy people that get ticked off when you are busy. I wasn't saying people don't want attention; of course people want attention. Anybody would go insane that didn't have anybody to talk to.
Also I wasn't saying people don't pay attention to looks, how someone dresses or how they talk. It shouldn't go by rankings though. I don't rank people; I go by how I make that person feel and how they make me feel; personality and personal preferences. If I notice after getting to know them for a little while and I don't see us being good friends then no I'm not going to bother anymore being around them unless they change. I wouldn't make anybody change if they don't want to, I'll just not bother to be around them when I know nothing will get better in the relationship. There is a difference between personal preferences and rankings. Besides I hangout with all sorts of different people.
I'm just being honest with my own opinion here and I'm not angry. This is the internet buddy.