Misery loves company, dont even bother responding anymore, let the people who want to be miserable just be miserable by themselves. Deep down they want to be like what you describe but they are afraid to let themselves be like that.
All they want is pity and attention. What they don't get is the fact that EVERYBODY goes through shit in life and others know how to handle it better emotionally. lol. Pity gets you nowhere!
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One, some people go through more shit than other, and you have know way of knowing what they've gone through. Two, everyone craves attention, including you. That's human nature. Three, not only are there mental disorders like depression and bipoler disorder to consider, there's also the fact that some people are simply treated better than others for reasons that they have no control over. People often say that attractive are treated better than unattractive people, and they are, but it has a lot more to do with charisma and social skills. For people like me (nervous and gawky and awkward), that basically means you're screwed for life. And four, do you really think that looking down on them because they're unhappy is any better than them looking down on you for being happy?
I don't want your attention you worthless garbage. I want you to realize that life isn't about happiness. You delude yourself into thinking you're supposed to be happy and joyful and all that nonsense. But in reality, when you delude yourself, you open yourself up to disappointment and hurt.
I just feel it's my job to try my best to hurt the deluded. Hey, I used to be deluded myself. I understand that mentality. But after being hurt one too many times, I understand now the reality. I'm just sorry you don't understand it yet. But you will when you have been pushed over the edge as well.
Enjoy being alone, miserable, and angry. And remember its everyone else's fault EXCEPT yours. Everyone else in the world is at fault but you arent at all.
I won't speak for everyone, but many people like that have depression (including me). It's a disease. There's no way around it, and there's not really a way to deal with it. There's medication for it, but it can be expensive and, for teenagers at least, difficult to get. Of course these people become bitter, and it's not helping anyone at all for you to look down on them. You and Seycheese talk about happiness like it's easy, and people who AREN'T happy are stubborn idiots. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
You must be terrible to be around, no wonder you are totally alone and have no friends and have been "hurt" so much. I wouldnt want to be around for more then 5 mins. I would call you a troll but I really think you are exactly like what you describe on here in real life.
Enjoy living your lonely, hate filled existence. I hope you live a long, long, LONG life. Its the worst possible thing that could happen to you.
I'm not always terrible to be around. I do have a few friends who are as misanthropic as myself. We have fun together.
And I definitely don't plan on living a long life. 35 is my cutoff. So your wish will not be granted ;-) My wish for you would be to get hit by a bus, but I'm not going to actually wish for that. Because you will be hurt over and over again by people. You will be disappointed. You will be let down. And that's good enough for me.
You mean you and your misanthropic clique of humans who hate humans but clearly not each other or yourselves have "FUN"?
You know what the definition for "fun" is? Enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure. You know why people seek fun? To feel happy and joyful, whether it be fleeting or long-lasting.
In other words, you hate people, especially happy people, but have friends you don't hate who also hate people (except you and each other) who you have fun with which makes you happy which makes you a happy person, which you hate.
First off, we definitely hate ourselves. We tolerate each other. And sometimes when I'm not in an uncontrollable rage (I admit, there are times I can and do enjoy things...on the rare occasion) Maybe I am a bit jealous that there are people who can be happy all the time, but at the same time, I do hate them. I hate that I CAN'T be happy all the time. I take medication for bipolar disorder and social anxiety, but that doesn't fucking work.
So my bitterness, I guess, is down to the fact I'm apparently not allowed to be happy but on the rare occasion. And the times I AM happy, I get let down. For real, I'm not always a bitter human being, but I find being happy for me always leads to being disappointed.
You're bitter because some people are more consistently happy than you; they don't necessarily encounter the endless disappointment you do and many people don't have to contend with a mental illness like Bipolar disorder when trying to enjoy their lives.
But that doesn't really excuse your nastiness towards people. Because some people have what you don't have, doesn't justify such vehement berating. It doesn't justify you calling people deluded or claiming they are setting themselves up to be crushed when you yourself admit it doesn't always follow that route for everyone. It doesn't justify you wishing death upon people who aren't as miserable as you. It doesn't justify you blaming 'happy people' for your own emotional struggles. That is the kind of attitude that essentially dooms you to continue being mostly unhappy - a self fulfilling prophecy.
That's fine, your heart is 'closed' as you say, you couldn't possibly care... Except that such bitterness is possibly the grandest display that you do care. That you care a great deal. If your heart was truly locked away safely then this hatred wouldn't manifest in response to such trivial comments. You aren't as thick skinned or tough as you might think.
Do you think you'd be happy if everybody else was always miserable?
Exactly. Let's just leave that kind of people alone. They are bitter, blinded by hatred and anger and that's all they have in their miserable lives. :P
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Yep for sure.
All they want is pity and attention. What they don't get is the fact that EVERYBODY goes through shit in life and others know how to handle it better emotionally. lol. Pity gets you nowhere!
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Third comment on this thread, mostly just a continuation of the last two.
One, some people go through more shit than other, and you have know way of knowing what they've gone through. Two, everyone craves attention, including you. That's human nature. Three, not only are there mental disorders like depression and bipoler disorder to consider, there's also the fact that some people are simply treated better than others for reasons that they have no control over. People often say that attractive are treated better than unattractive people, and they are, but it has a lot more to do with charisma and social skills. For people like me (nervous and gawky and awkward), that basically means you're screwed for life. And four, do you really think that looking down on them because they're unhappy is any better than them looking down on you for being happy?
I don't want your attention you worthless garbage. I want you to realize that life isn't about happiness. You delude yourself into thinking you're supposed to be happy and joyful and all that nonsense. But in reality, when you delude yourself, you open yourself up to disappointment and hurt.
I just feel it's my job to try my best to hurt the deluded. Hey, I used to be deluded myself. I understand that mentality. But after being hurt one too many times, I understand now the reality. I'm just sorry you don't understand it yet. But you will when you have been pushed over the edge as well.
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Enjoy being alone, miserable, and angry. And remember its everyone else's fault EXCEPT yours. Everyone else in the world is at fault but you arent at all.
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No, I know it's as much my fault as it is everyone else's. Your sarcastic comments don't mean shit to me.
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I won't speak for everyone, but many people like that have depression (including me). It's a disease. There's no way around it, and there's not really a way to deal with it. There's medication for it, but it can be expensive and, for teenagers at least, difficult to get. Of course these people become bitter, and it's not helping anyone at all for you to look down on them. You and Seycheese talk about happiness like it's easy, and people who AREN'T happy are stubborn idiots. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
I don't want to be like that one single bit. You think you know people like me, but you really don't. You're nothing but deluded trash.
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You must be terrible to be around, no wonder you are totally alone and have no friends and have been "hurt" so much. I wouldnt want to be around for more then 5 mins. I would call you a troll but I really think you are exactly like what you describe on here in real life.
Enjoy living your lonely, hate filled existence. I hope you live a long, long, LONG life. Its the worst possible thing that could happen to you.
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I'm not always terrible to be around. I do have a few friends who are as misanthropic as myself. We have fun together.
And I definitely don't plan on living a long life. 35 is my cutoff. So your wish will not be granted ;-) My wish for you would be to get hit by a bus, but I'm not going to actually wish for that. Because you will be hurt over and over again by people. You will be disappointed. You will be let down. And that's good enough for me.
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You have "FUN" together?
You mean you and your misanthropic clique of humans who hate humans but clearly not each other or yourselves have "FUN"?
You know what the definition for "fun" is? Enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure. You know why people seek fun? To feel happy and joyful, whether it be fleeting or long-lasting.
In other words, you hate people, especially happy people, but have friends you don't hate who also hate people (except you and each other) who you have fun with which makes you happy which makes you a happy person, which you hate.
What a joke :D
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First off, we definitely hate ourselves. We tolerate each other. And sometimes when I'm not in an uncontrollable rage (I admit, there are times I can and do enjoy things...on the rare occasion) Maybe I am a bit jealous that there are people who can be happy all the time, but at the same time, I do hate them. I hate that I CAN'T be happy all the time. I take medication for bipolar disorder and social anxiety, but that doesn't fucking work.
So my bitterness, I guess, is down to the fact I'm apparently not allowed to be happy but on the rare occasion. And the times I AM happy, I get let down. For real, I'm not always a bitter human being, but I find being happy for me always leads to being disappointed.
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That explains a lot.
You're bitter because some people are more consistently happy than you; they don't necessarily encounter the endless disappointment you do and many people don't have to contend with a mental illness like Bipolar disorder when trying to enjoy their lives.
But that doesn't really excuse your nastiness towards people. Because some people have what you don't have, doesn't justify such vehement berating. It doesn't justify you calling people deluded or claiming they are setting themselves up to be crushed when you yourself admit it doesn't always follow that route for everyone. It doesn't justify you wishing death upon people who aren't as miserable as you. It doesn't justify you blaming 'happy people' for your own emotional struggles. That is the kind of attitude that essentially dooms you to continue being mostly unhappy - a self fulfilling prophecy.
That's fine, your heart is 'closed' as you say, you couldn't possibly care... Except that such bitterness is possibly the grandest display that you do care. That you care a great deal. If your heart was truly locked away safely then this hatred wouldn't manifest in response to such trivial comments. You aren't as thick skinned or tough as you might think.
Do you think you'd be happy if everybody else was always miserable?
Exactly. Let's just leave that kind of people alone. They are bitter, blinded by hatred and anger and that's all they have in their miserable lives. :P
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True that!