Nobody is better than anyone; we all just have our own preferences on people who we enjoy to hangout with. I find it ridiculous when people have a ranking on others. If you don't like that person just don't bother to hangout with them and don't think they are below your standards.
I personally try not to hangout with people that are needy, that think they are better than others and that also have a negative attitude. They annoy me and I wouldn't make them feel any better if I tried to be friends with them too because I know I would get angry at them quiet often.
Sorry, I just have to say this. EVERYONE has rankings on the people around them. EVERYONE judges people by the way they look/dress/talk. And EVERYONE is needy, at least to an extent. Wanting someone to pay attention to them doesn't mean that they "think they're better than others and have a negative attitude", they're just lonely.
I was talking about overly needy people that get ticked off when you are busy. I wasn't saying people don't want attention; of course people want attention. Anybody would go insane that didn't have anybody to talk to.
Also I wasn't saying people don't pay attention to looks, how someone dresses or how they talk. It shouldn't go by rankings though. I don't rank people; I go by how I make that person feel and how they make me feel; personality and personal preferences. If I notice after getting to know them for a little while and I don't see us being good friends then no I'm not going to bother anymore being around them unless they change. I wouldn't make anybody change if they don't want to, I'll just not bother to be around them when I know nothing will get better in the relationship. There is a difference between personal preferences and rankings. Besides I hangout with all sorts of different people.
I'm just being honest with my own opinion here and I'm not angry. This is the internet buddy.
Misery loves company, dont even bother responding anymore, let the people who want to be miserable just be miserable by themselves. Deep down they want to be like what you describe but they are afraid to let themselves be like that.
All they want is pity and attention. What they don't get is the fact that EVERYBODY goes through shit in life and others know how to handle it better emotionally. lol. Pity gets you nowhere!
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One, some people go through more shit than other, and you have know way of knowing what they've gone through. Two, everyone craves attention, including you. That's human nature. Three, not only are there mental disorders like depression and bipoler disorder to consider, there's also the fact that some people are simply treated better than others for reasons that they have no control over. People often say that attractive are treated better than unattractive people, and they are, but it has a lot more to do with charisma and social skills. For people like me (nervous and gawky and awkward), that basically means you're screwed for life. And four, do you really think that looking down on them because they're unhappy is any better than them looking down on you for being happy?
I don't want your attention you worthless garbage. I want you to realize that life isn't about happiness. You delude yourself into thinking you're supposed to be happy and joyful and all that nonsense. But in reality, when you delude yourself, you open yourself up to disappointment and hurt.
I just feel it's my job to try my best to hurt the deluded. Hey, I used to be deluded myself. I understand that mentality. But after being hurt one too many times, I understand now the reality. I'm just sorry you don't understand it yet. But you will when you have been pushed over the edge as well.
Enjoy being alone, miserable, and angry. And remember its everyone else's fault EXCEPT yours. Everyone else in the world is at fault but you arent at all.
I won't speak for everyone, but many people like that have depression (including me). It's a disease. There's no way around it, and there's not really a way to deal with it. There's medication for it, but it can be expensive and, for teenagers at least, difficult to get. Of course these people become bitter, and it's not helping anyone at all for you to look down on them. You and Seycheese talk about happiness like it's easy, and people who AREN'T happy are stubborn idiots. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
You must be terrible to be around, no wonder you are totally alone and have no friends and have been "hurt" so much. I wouldnt want to be around for more then 5 mins. I would call you a troll but I really think you are exactly like what you describe on here in real life.
Enjoy living your lonely, hate filled existence. I hope you live a long, long, LONG life. Its the worst possible thing that could happen to you.
I'm not always terrible to be around. I do have a few friends who are as misanthropic as myself. We have fun together.
And I definitely don't plan on living a long life. 35 is my cutoff. So your wish will not be granted ;-) My wish for you would be to get hit by a bus, but I'm not going to actually wish for that. Because you will be hurt over and over again by people. You will be disappointed. You will be let down. And that's good enough for me.
Exactly. Let's just leave that kind of people alone. They are bitter, blinded by hatred and anger and that's all they have in their miserable lives. :P
You can take your happiness and shove it. I fucking hate happy people like you. But then again, I shouldn't waste my time hating you. Because of your happiness, you will be hurt a lot more than I am on a daily basis. If you're unhappy, you can't be let down.
I want nothing more than for you to suffer. You happy people have spent lots of time making me suffer to the point where I can't be happy any more. It's all your fault, and now, there's nothing I want more than for you to suffer in agonizing pain.
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Nobody is better than anyone; we all just have our own preferences on people who we enjoy to hangout with. I find it ridiculous when people have a ranking on others. If you don't like that person just don't bother to hangout with them and don't think they are below your standards.
I personally try not to hangout with people that are needy, that think they are better than others and that also have a negative attitude. They annoy me and I wouldn't make them feel any better if I tried to be friends with them too because I know I would get angry at them quiet often.
You just need to be more positive and happy.
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Sorry, I just have to say this. EVERYONE has rankings on the people around them. EVERYONE judges people by the way they look/dress/talk. And EVERYONE is needy, at least to an extent. Wanting someone to pay attention to them doesn't mean that they "think they're better than others and have a negative attitude", they're just lonely.
Get off your fucking high horse.
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I was talking about overly needy people that get ticked off when you are busy. I wasn't saying people don't want attention; of course people want attention. Anybody would go insane that didn't have anybody to talk to.
Also I wasn't saying people don't pay attention to looks, how someone dresses or how they talk. It shouldn't go by rankings though. I don't rank people; I go by how I make that person feel and how they make me feel; personality and personal preferences. If I notice after getting to know them for a little while and I don't see us being good friends then no I'm not going to bother anymore being around them unless they change. I wouldn't make anybody change if they don't want to, I'll just not bother to be around them when I know nothing will get better in the relationship. There is a difference between personal preferences and rankings. Besides I hangout with all sorts of different people.
I'm just being honest with my own opinion here and I'm not angry. This is the internet buddy.
"You just need to be more positive and happy."
Fuck. You. Seriously, fuck the hell out of you fucking asshole.
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What is wrong with you. No wonder people don't want to hangout with you.
You don't seem happy at all and what is wrong with being happy? :\ hmmm?
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Misery loves company, dont even bother responding anymore, let the people who want to be miserable just be miserable by themselves. Deep down they want to be like what you describe but they are afraid to let themselves be like that.
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Yep for sure.
All they want is pity and attention. What they don't get is the fact that EVERYBODY goes through shit in life and others know how to handle it better emotionally. lol. Pity gets you nowhere!
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Third comment on this thread, mostly just a continuation of the last two.
One, some people go through more shit than other, and you have know way of knowing what they've gone through. Two, everyone craves attention, including you. That's human nature. Three, not only are there mental disorders like depression and bipoler disorder to consider, there's also the fact that some people are simply treated better than others for reasons that they have no control over. People often say that attractive are treated better than unattractive people, and they are, but it has a lot more to do with charisma and social skills. For people like me (nervous and gawky and awkward), that basically means you're screwed for life. And four, do you really think that looking down on them because they're unhappy is any better than them looking down on you for being happy?
I don't want your attention you worthless garbage. I want you to realize that life isn't about happiness. You delude yourself into thinking you're supposed to be happy and joyful and all that nonsense. But in reality, when you delude yourself, you open yourself up to disappointment and hurt.
I just feel it's my job to try my best to hurt the deluded. Hey, I used to be deluded myself. I understand that mentality. But after being hurt one too many times, I understand now the reality. I'm just sorry you don't understand it yet. But you will when you have been pushed over the edge as well.
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Enjoy being alone, miserable, and angry. And remember its everyone else's fault EXCEPT yours. Everyone else in the world is at fault but you arent at all.
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I won't speak for everyone, but many people like that have depression (including me). It's a disease. There's no way around it, and there's not really a way to deal with it. There's medication for it, but it can be expensive and, for teenagers at least, difficult to get. Of course these people become bitter, and it's not helping anyone at all for you to look down on them. You and Seycheese talk about happiness like it's easy, and people who AREN'T happy are stubborn idiots. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
I don't want to be like that one single bit. You think you know people like me, but you really don't. You're nothing but deluded trash.
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You must be terrible to be around, no wonder you are totally alone and have no friends and have been "hurt" so much. I wouldnt want to be around for more then 5 mins. I would call you a troll but I really think you are exactly like what you describe on here in real life.
Enjoy living your lonely, hate filled existence. I hope you live a long, long, LONG life. Its the worst possible thing that could happen to you.
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I'm not always terrible to be around. I do have a few friends who are as misanthropic as myself. We have fun together.
And I definitely don't plan on living a long life. 35 is my cutoff. So your wish will not be granted ;-) My wish for you would be to get hit by a bus, but I'm not going to actually wish for that. Because you will be hurt over and over again by people. You will be disappointed. You will be let down. And that's good enough for me.
Exactly. Let's just leave that kind of people alone. They are bitter, blinded by hatred and anger and that's all they have in their miserable lives. :P
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True that!
You can take your happiness and shove it. I fucking hate happy people like you. But then again, I shouldn't waste my time hating you. Because of your happiness, you will be hurt a lot more than I am on a daily basis. If you're unhappy, you can't be let down.
I want nothing more than for you to suffer. You happy people have spent lots of time making me suffer to the point where I can't be happy any more. It's all your fault, and now, there's nothing I want more than for you to suffer in agonizing pain.
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I'm so happy because I'm a gummy, gummy bear! Awe motherfucker...........
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The fuck are you smoking?
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I thought you said you didn't want attention from me.