Trust me, I hate having pretentious moments like this! I suppose it's the generic society I'm in. It's hard not to realize that I'm not false and sheltered like them, so out of desperation when I've tried to show them attention in a futile attempt to create what I'm missing, they've turned away from me. It does leave me bitter and doesn't make much sense. Maybe I need to move cities ;)
"It's hard not to realize that I'm not false and sheltered like them, so out of desperation when I've tried to show them attention in a futile attempt to create what I'm missing, they've turned away from me"
Well who would befriend somebody that was only seeking their friendship out of a desperate desire not to be lonely, whilst still harbouring this negative stereotype towards them that you are better than them and that they are sheltered, 'false' and 'below your standards'?
Resenting the people around you but expecting them to provide you with affection and company is to expect too much and to not understand how society works at all.
i think its normal, people go through that all the time. the what if i end up alone thing, but thing is in the beginning you are alone and in the end it will be the same. im not saying you wont find you soul mate or something, i hope you do but if you can learn to be okay with lonliness then it wont seem bad at all there are many beifits as well misbenifits if thats a word, just like with everthing else theres a good side and a bad one. does this help alittle
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Trust me, I hate having pretentious moments like this! I suppose it's the generic society I'm in. It's hard not to realize that I'm not false and sheltered like them, so out of desperation when I've tried to show them attention in a futile attempt to create what I'm missing, they've turned away from me. It does leave me bitter and doesn't make much sense. Maybe I need to move cities ;)
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"It's hard not to realize that I'm not false and sheltered like them, so out of desperation when I've tried to show them attention in a futile attempt to create what I'm missing, they've turned away from me"
Well who would befriend somebody that was only seeking their friendship out of a desperate desire not to be lonely, whilst still harbouring this negative stereotype towards them that you are better than them and that they are sheltered, 'false' and 'below your standards'?
Resenting the people around you but expecting them to provide you with affection and company is to expect too much and to not understand how society works at all.
It makes you sound arrogant and naive.
i think its normal, people go through that all the time. the what if i end up alone thing, but thing is in the beginning you are alone and in the end it will be the same. im not saying you wont find you soul mate or something, i hope you do but if you can learn to be okay with lonliness then it wont seem bad at all there are many beifits as well misbenifits if thats a word, just like with everthing else theres a good side and a bad one. does this help alittle